
Always here for that, icedmatcha!
Btw, you mentioned in another comment that in your country the "gay" label is more harmful than a "queer" label... I found this quite interesting. May I ask you were do you live?
Hmm... wait, that made me sound like a stalker. I'm just asking about the country, ok? And only if you are willing to answer, of course.

i live in malaysia!! the climate for lgbt here is so bad. gay is used as an insult and transness is used as a joke.
i see a lot of lgbt folk refer to themselves as queer here bc theres less repercussions but there are still many people who call themselves gay too, its just that queer is just as widely used as well. since gay is used more like a slur here by non lgbt people, personally i like using the word queer haha
god im so glad these two talked honestly with eachother!! yuyangs anxiety is so so so justified and im glad that lihuan understands and is right that theyre both the same; they both social outcasts and lonely and scared and im glad they can find solace in eachother
also thank you cappy for the trans!