I feel your pain so much! It has only been a year for me. I found the messages on his phone, confronted him, and he denied it even though it was super evident. Then he had the balls to say he was breaking up with me because of my "behavior". I threw him out of my house.
Oh my God,i'm really sorry to hear that. He really don't deserved you. Thanks God you found it quickly before you and him get married. I don't know what's wrong with the boy out there. How they can blame another person for his behavior. I means if they had anything don't like about us,they can tell us. Communication. Not,okay i found your attitude bad and i will find another girl. Come on,we can talk. We can compromise. Okay,not all boy out there suck but yeah,i found in my circle quite suck. Hope you will find someone who cherish you and glad to have you.
I'm sorry it happened to you too. The only explanation I got is toxic masculinity. Grown adults who can't communicate and act like an adult, instead act like a 3 year old child is the results of toxic masculinity.
Indeed.
My life. Totally my life. My ex bf cheated on me,blame me for his behavior, not a single apologize he said to me. And then i just do my work work work and work. Then i realized it's been 3 years i've been single Σ( ￣□￣||)