Awesome explanation for that virgin comment. I so agree with you!
SAMEEE it happens so much in yaoi and manhwa...why does having a super experienced seme and unexperienced uke so appealing to yaoi artists??? its annoying.
Not that I take issue with anyone remaining a virgin for their own personal reasons but yes,I completely agree on this sentiment of the “pure” uke vs. “promiscuous” seme dichotomy that is routinely used. It’s so tiresome and honestly just reaffirms clear misogyny even in a male/male centered relationship. There’s nothing wrong with two sexually experienced people together, or one more experienced than the other, however let’s not make their virginal status define them, that’s just gross.
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i can read hangul, lol, but ofc my understanding is limites. i read that it been 5 years since theyve met and i also read that she mentioned the word husband, but i dont know if shes referencing him as an ex husband or her current husband. its weird im not a jealous person in real life but for fictional characters i get jealous for them. like i dont like that mascot ssi(lol cant remember his name rn) is made to be some older virgin with no relationship experience, im not shaming virgins or older people for being virgins btw, and baseball dude is younger and sleeps around constantly. i just hate that gap in experience because the one who sleeps around /always/ has a bunch of exes coming out of the woodworks to make the inexperienced one feel insecure