
Mine's been 12 years so far. And if he did get divorced and come to me, I don't think I could accept him. He is one of my best friends, but he said it himself, when I confessed (before he met his wife), that he could never love me like that. I just don't think I could ever believe he would truly love me, and I can't go through a broken heart again. It nearly destroyed me last time. I think if it happened a second time it really would kill me.

I'm so sorry darling, nobody deserves to be the last resort ,I can't accept that at all
But I guess it's different when it come to real life and you are able to find sincerity in the opposite and love within yourself . But he has already said that .
I wish you happiness and to all of us , I hope to find someone who would choose me first and mostly I hope to at least like someone since apparently I haven't just lots of years on lost causes of crushs I've tried to convince myself that I had
11 years in total
Get over him part of me believes it's all in our brain
I wouldn't want be able to get over the fact that it's been 25 years tbh
Long time breaks the heart