But it's also understandable from uke's view... He didn't want to force the seme to take responsibility, even though it's "uke's fault". So at least he had good intentions...
The path to hell is always paved with good intentions...
he got pregnant after having drunken (seme) sex one time...they were not partners. i think that unless people have been in a similar place, they can't really judge. i was on the opposite end of the spectrum. had a relationship my son's father, got pregnant, and for awhile we didn't see each other. but, when he found out i had given birth, and called me at the hospital, i told him to come see our son. he has seen our son a total of five times. my son is an adult now. never once did i deny him, he was the one that wanted a relationship w our son when it suited him.
Omg he missed out on rasing his child
The uke did something terrible
I would be so heartbroken if I was the seme after I find out I had a child and my partner hid him from me