oh PLZ, Yuyang is so insecure and afraid of being gay (ironic) that he would find reasons in the wind, just to back away from any romantic relationship. don't blame the girl.
He is insecure because he's been through a lot! His family, his classmates from when he was young and society are mostly opposed to him being himself, the idea that him being gay is gross or unwanted/unwelcome was pretty much there his whole life. And LiHuan is different because he simply didn't dwell on his sexuality, he is a (romantically & sexually speaking) a late bloomer, he didn't know what he liked ;like YuYang from the beginning. And YuYang experience homophobia since a young age, that shit scars a person. Especially if you're in a country where being gay it's looked down upon and discriminated against. Idk where you live, or whether or not you're gay, but I a few people I know have a pretty agonizing time not being able to be themselves because of the accumulated circumstances of homophobia.
first off didn't say Yuyang didnt go through shit - obvious from his back story - he did. and that's the ironic fact - that after going through everything with family, friends and strangers he still didnt back down or deny that he's was/is gay. but when there is a serious guy interested in him he is running scared?!?.
everything u wrote isn't wrong but has nothing to do with what i said. and maybe in LiHuan case he is a late bloomer as u said, but still - he isn't living in some other universe where being attracted to the same sex is ok. he is just natural about it. as if it normal - cause it is normal! and the fact that this is his first love is even more annoying that he may get his heart broken cause of Yuyang being scared (btw he - LiHuan - has his own baggage, what with people/kids being prejudice against him cause of his size and him always being alone - since he was a kid) but that didnt hold him back when his heart was involved!
so yeah still say that Yuyang is to blame for the "fuck up" in this chapter not the girl.
Silly girl, this is why you have to MINDFUL of how you behave around your gay friends in that type of homophobic society, gay people are already having enough problems!
Pure intentions don't mean you're less stupid, omg, girl, ily, but stop "helping" them!