So I don't know a lot about BDSM, so how is she not being a good representation of it and how should a dom act? I didn't know there was like a "right way" to be a dom? I feel like a child not knowing this, but also pervy for loving this series!
I'm sure op will be able to answer you in more detail but I think that a lot more consent and discussion has to happen before they begin, for example what kind of plays they like vs dont like, what kind of safe words/signs to use during play, etc
What idk mentioned is exactly where I was getting at.. Discussion, Limits, Safewords, Explanation of what's happening etc needs to be discussed beforehand. Especcily with someone who doesn't know anything about the realm of BDSM like Dorim who has absolutly no clue what he's doing and she's taking advantage of that. I was more specifically not fond of the interactions between her and Dorim, the others seem to know what to exact at least. This is coming from an actual Femdom with years of experience aha
I'm disliking her more and more, she really isn't a good representation of BDSM or how a dom should act. But goddamn I can't stop reading... the art and boys are so gorgeous!!