I don't agree with how the mom reacted but I can't blame her either. When they first got i...

How should she react? It kills me when people said the mom should not have reacted like that. That's a small reaction...I'm surprised she didn't smack them both.

The killing herself part is the only thing that I didn't agree with and left a sour taste in my mouth. I would have smacked them both idc either lol. But she basically said it would be her son's fault if she killed herself that's traumatic

I disagree, she just seen something traumatic happen, not only once but twice. You can't blame her for saying something like that after what she just seen and coming to the conclusion that her marriage is over. We know she's still alive and maybe at the time, she did think about killing herself and yeah, it would have been Jowoon and Heasoo's fault. Just like it's their fault that their parents are divorced.

I'm sorry but that is no reason to kill yourself. It is traumatic but no one needs to die because two people are having sex. So trauma for trauma? That is her son at the end of the day.

There's no reason to kill yourself but you can't blame her for saying that. Trauma happen all the time and people become depressed and kill themselves. It happens, you can say that her saying that doesn't add up but it does. It's gross for her son and stepson to be having sex and it to be alluded that your stepson is doing this soley to fuck with your son and fuck your marriage. She doesn't even seem to be upset that her son is gay, it's the fact he's sleeping with her stepson. She has every right to feel this way.

In my first post I did say I dont agree but I cant BLAME her. I can't agree solely for the reason that I have had family members commit suicide and I e seen how other family members blamed themselves and fall into depression and live a very sad life. Now sometimes yes it would be the person's fault but in this case to me it really isnt that serious to traumatize your son with that. She can feel how ever she wants to feel but telling her son she would kill herself is uncalled for. Cuz now he feels that his sexual desire for his step sibling will be the cause of his mom killing herself. Now he has guilt for even feeling horny for him which is not anyone's fault. A desire isnt anyone's fault.

& I agree it has nothing to do with being gay I never got the sense she was homophobic

Telling you son that you're going to kill yourself is not uncalled for if you seen them have sex and make out twice. You're more hung up on her saying that she would kill herself and telling Heasoo that versus what made her say and feel that way. This is a cause and effect, if they weren't doing what they were doing, the mom wouldn't have had a mental breakdown and said that.

I literally said I cant blame her. Meaning I understand why she feels that way and even why she did it. I can't agree with it because it was in the form of a threat and if you wanna talk cause and effect haesoo can also feel so guilty that he can kill himself just like she can. Having sex with your sibling or step sibling is wrong definitely and traumatic it's just unfortunate that more trauma had to come because of it. Not just the moms but haesoo's as well cuz look how he turned out.