thank you

Excuse me but can I ask you a question? it's not related to the manga but to you being a lesbian... I hope it won't offend you and really sorry in advance if it does....





have you read this manga before?
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/pulse_ratana_satis/?av=3

it was my first yuri and I couldn't get the sexual relationship between them.. the mc always was the one to satisfy the needs of her partner and only once her partner returned the favour and it was obvious from their conversation that it was their first time doing that... the question is.. how does the mc get satisfaction without being touched?... and in this manga too it's always the pink haired girl who does it to her partners.... I did do my research but all I could find is that it's a mutual thing.. so sorry to bother you but I really want to understand.. is merely touching the other party can do the trick or are the authors just exaggerating

Hi! Not sure if I can answer this, since you asked directly a specific person, but if you don't mind I will just throw my two cents in, as both a lesbian and a person who read Pulse c:

Sooo Pulse wasn't my first yuri and to be honest I don't know if I would recommend it to anyone as their first yuri either, but well, regardless of that, there are different positions/roles that are possible in lesbian sex and it all comes down to person's own preference. And the research that you did wasn't exactly incorrect, because a lot of female couples prefer to switch and "share" equally, but there are also lesbians and bi women that are more dominant or submissive. In some cases, dominant women may not always dominate and some submissive women may enjoy being the dominant one from time to time, so they are able to be more flexible, but there are also women who are strictly dominant or submissive. As for the ones that are strictly dominant (they are often called "touch-me-not", but that's just a fun fact), since I'm assuming that these are the ones you asked about, to put in bluntly they just enjoy giving more than receiving and some of them don't even like being at the receiving side at all. I don't know how not-PG I can get with this comment, but let's just say that there is a certain satisfaction you can get from touching/licking your partner - it does feel different than while you're being touched, but there are women who genuinely prefer being in control sexually and seeing reactions of their partner makes them feel good. And honestly, all it takes is just for both partners to communicate and discuss (no matter how awkward it can feel at first) if what you're doing is satisfying both of you. So yeah, touching someone can, like you said, do the trick, tho let's not forget that usually comic authors only have few pictures that can depict sex, so they can draw only parts of it, which is probably the reason why everything may seem rushed or exaggerated ;)

i don't think i've read it before and i can not speak for everyone. also im not super experienced hahaha
In my experience it hasnt always been mutual but because things were disscused or sometimes you just want to please your partner or viceversa.
i think that the image or concept of straight sex leads most people to believe that its a mutual thing, but if you actually look into it the women cums about half the time, the dudes almost always. Im not saying that in a lesbian realitionship you cum 100% of the time but in percentaje is more.
what im trying to say is that the point of sex is not always getting of, sometimes it happens to all the parties involved and sometimes it happens to none, you have fun, enjoy your partner and just enjoy, it doesnt need to always end in an orgasm, also some people prefer touching than being touched.
i hope this helps in some way also im open to answer your questions if you'd like, my english is not perfect but i hope my message comes across and you´re able to get the jist of it :3

thank you so much.. you answered my question perfectly.. that's exactly what I was wondering about

first of all thank you so much for replying to me and for being so open about it.. actually what you've said is totally new to me ( me being inexperienced in any kind of sex.. I'm still virgin) so I always assumed that the point of any sexual action is to climax for both parties.. thank you

any time :3

i asked my daughter this same question before and her answer was simple some people get more out of seeing their partner get off than in actually getting off themselves

no problem c:

talk about a well written answer . an answer that i can fully agree with

Sorry for being nosey and reading all these comments, but i just wanna thank the person who asked and the people who responded, i learned something new today

no need to apologise, public comments are out there to be read by everyone :P Glad they were useful!