Haesoo not a victim

First of all I would prefer Haesoo with Taku since it looks less toxic. However, I have seen the argument that H is some victim being forced by Jowoon to do things and I don't think so. H even says himself that they started out experimenting as teens and now several years later they are still going at it. He is a very active participant in all this and sometimes I get the vibe like he strings along everyone. This might actually be the part of the story that is realistic since hooking up with people is not as clear cut as it is made out to be. On the other hand, I think J is honestly in love with him. He seems to be thoroughly invested while H is going with the flow (although he too seems to be heavily influenced by J). Taku will not only be a healthy break for their toxic relationship, but they can focus on treasuring each other as brothers.