exactly :')
Ever since he broke his heart he was traumatized I think
i don't think that's what 'traumatized' him. Haesoo's biggest fear is being abandoned, he has a low self esteem, and ever since one of his ex's told him he's unable to love, it's been haunting him.
I wouldn't say the relationship with joowon traumatized him, but over the years it just changed him. For the worse, obviously.
But the scene where Haesoo was literally having flashbacks of Joowon forcing him into a blowjob as he was about to go down on Taku, really showed that it triggered him. He started crying. I know Joowon can be rough, but I wonder if it was the first time that Joowon forced H to do something he said clearly No to, then it would definitely make sense that it traumatized and hurt him deeply. Fuck, Joowon is just getting worse and worse, I can't stand him seeing around Haesoo.
Haesoo's biggest fear is being abandoned, he has a low self esteem
But isnt it Joowon's fault for playing with Haesoo's heart?
And well what you said made more sense, I agree
Also he must have been forceful many time since he doesnt listen to him
It seems so. When his head shoved down there, Haesoo even thinks that Joowon won't leave him alone until he blows him, so he just does it. It shows just how often Joowon does this kind of stuff, where he just doesn't listen to Haesoo or respect what he wants.
Yes it is Joowons fault, I never denied it lol. They're both fault for fucking up their relationship (not only joowon), however Joowon started and always had the lead. Haesoo's clearly the one who suffers the most :/
Yeah Joowon is quite a forceful person, buy I doubt he ever did something so awful like in that car scene... At least I hope so.
Apparently, he has. Haesoo says before he starts sucking him off that Joowon won't stop until he just does it, so he just does it. Meaning it's happened before.
hmmm no, that's just a poor assumption. haesoo only guessed that joowon won't leave him alone, because Joowon always wants to have it his way. i doubt it happened sexually ever before
It's not just a poor assumption based on this one sexual encounter. I think you're forgetting all their other sex scenes. Just go back and read their other sex scenes, even when Haesoo doesn't want it, Joowon's going to get it. Like continuing even after Haesoo has said no or coming inside of him especially when Haesoo said not to and Joowon even said he wouldn't. Haesoo even slapped him after that, and Joowon was even happy that Haesoo got upset. Based on experience, Haesoo knew that Joowon wouldn't leave him alone. And it has happened sexually before, we have every one of their sex scenes as proof of that.
But their sex scenes seem just normal ? They're just a little rough, but that doesn't seem to bother H since he meets up with other guys whose styles are more on the rougher side as well. The part where Joowon came inside Haesoo, isn't really comparable to forcing someone to a blowjob
...I think you need to reevaluate what you consider normal (by which, I'm assuming you mean consensual/healthy) sex. You accused me of making poor assumptions before, but your reply is full of poor assumptions? This isn't a typical BL, where a seme ignoring his uke's words is considered normal, this author is aware of consent and healthy sex. Coming inside of someone after being told not to may not be as offensive as forcing a blowjob, but it's still awful and abusive. If anything, this should tell you that Joowon is escalating. I wouldn't be surprised if he attempts to rape Haesoo later on when he realizes that Haesoo is no longer under his control.
I'm not on joowons side fyi. And yeah the author does seem to mimd the difference between healthy and unhealthy sex, but still.. I just dont see anything joowon did earlier close to that forced blowjob.
And oh my god I keep worrying about Haesoo getting raped as well, It for sure wouldn't surprise. I hope it won't happen ,-,
I know, I saw your other comments elsewhere, I can't remember if you're Team Taku or if you just want Haesoo to be happy. I guess coming inside without permission doesn't seem as bad, but I know that in real life it feels awful and completely destroys your trust in the other person, it feels like you've been violated (didn't happen to me, happened to friends). I'm glad I'm not the only who is worried about potential rape! I don't want Joowon to stoop to that level, and I don't want Haesoo to go through something so terrible.
Yeah I'm definitely team taku. It doesn't have to be him Haesoo chooses, but definitely not Joowon. I just want Haesoo to be happy so badly, he's so broken.. I want everyone to be happy, but Joowon deserves at least some punishment.
Yeah I guess I can agree on the rest.
With the way Joowon is treating Haesoo, you would think that Haesoo is a sex sleeve. Haesoo even remembered that awful forced blowjob while trying to give Taku a blowjob and started crying - Joowon fucking traumatized him.