I got molested at the age of 13 and i was wandering if thats why i hate this yaoi. Can any...

I think most likely. But I don't think ppl that like this story wish this upon anyone, and they are mature enough to know this is a fictional story.

I was raped by the age of 8 and it really triggers me when someone comments that rape is a turn on. :-) I would say "if it's your taste, ok" but don't shove your twisted tastes on our faces because rape it's not something fun y'know.
Anyway I think your reaction it's a very normal one :-))

Probably no matter what these are school children same as u at that age

i went throught that at age 12 , but i don't hate this manga, i surly hate those guys but this is different, it's fictional to start with and there r many different layers of the characters that i want to see *for a molester and in real life there is only layer that i just will hate no matter what* ... i know i am not answering your question but maybe showing u my pov will help...

Guys if something triggers you, avoid it. Dont put yourself in this situations.
Yaoi is clearly not the great source of realistic scenarios, especially when it comes to abuse/trauma.

Same. I was molested by a family member during elementary here.

I hate pseudo-science extreme exposure bullshit plots like this that act as if hammering someone with the source of their trauma is the right thing to do to cure them. That is some medieval snake oil peddler method that will do more damage than good.

I'm okay if the story doesn't treat itself seriously and just be pure smut. But stories that treat themselves seriously despite being poorly researched and just plain wrong are what pisses me off.

^^maybe this is off topic but i dont think the school nurse is trying to cure his trauma, or if he even knows that trauma exists. in my experience i think trauma can shape your tastes (like looking for traits in a boyfriend your father had ((bad or good)) because you want validation from them). i also know people who were raped and have force kinks despite it (or because of it).

if the plot goes that way i'll be disappointed but i hope thats not the case (︶︿︶)

looking for realistic stuff all the time is boring and ruins the whole idea of being artistic