
Well, in yaoi the line between pain and pleasure is blurred much more than in a regular straight relationship. When a Seme makes an Uke cry, it means that they care enough about that Seme to cry. Hence the whole "Teasing" situation. It could be a "Cry out in pleasure" Situation. Or "Cry because loving feelings" Situation. It becomes clearer in stories like Dark Heaven and Blood Bank, that crying isn't meant to be an abusive term, it's meant to say something along the lines of "I love you and only you can make me cry and feel this way" Kind of thing.

What the f is wrong with YOU? You basically said this was romantic only because it was gay. That's homophobic AF for one. For two, no, it's only romantic when both parties consent to it, as the uke CLEARLY did not. That goes ESPECIALLY for people who have kinks like this, because, believe it or not, everything in bdsm is about CONSENT. Idgaf if you're gay. I'm ace and I KNOW I can still be acephobic AF myself. Thanks.

I don't think anyone said this is okay just because it's gay... I think you missed the point. In this genre "Yaoi" You will find that most characters will come out and say things like: "I love to see you cry." Or: "I love to tease you" It's considered a way to express a connection between the Seme and Uke. Letting your guard down to the person you love and allowing that bond to be shown kind of thing. It is common in a GAY YAOI GENRE. Now, the fact you are taking what was said out of context just seems like you want to get a reaction which is fine. Trolls are fun. Last time I checked, this Uke was full on consenting to the point he was the one who initiated the situation. And that is consent. I'm kinda sick about people bringing up bdsm in a non bdsm story. This isn't a bdsm story, and did you ever stop to think that being forceful and this kind of teasing are these character's kink? They both seem to get off on it. So when the uke is saying "no no no" he just is playing up his kink? Ever stop to think about that? Because that is a thing, and it has nothing to do with bdsm, nothing to do with a rape kink, it has to do with just playing up the teasing so they both get their kink. But no. Let's just jump to the conclusion that this isn't consensual. You do realize this uke could have left him a number of times, but he didn't.
These r dudes, saying you want to make the uke cry is ROMANTIC... welcome to yaoi snowflakes