I was about to write this so happy u already done it.
This is a problem I see a lot if u don't said things aloud nobody can't read your mind to know what u feel.
He seems to really care for her.
There are no sides they’re both not perfect he broke up with her instead of trying to communicate???
Everyone bellow my comment is taking is aside so why can't I? And I want you to think I'm real life would you comunícate after Finding out about a situation not from the other parties mouth but from an accident? People always blow up in those situation which is what I said in my original comment if after a few days ( of still being in his normal body) he isn't try to talk again then ok he lacks communication. But everyone takes terrible decisions after being mad. And come in after she didn't communicate to him he should now be understanding and communicate? She didn't exactly try to explain either.
Wow! Don't you think you are responding too harshly to what was said before? You are being as narrow minded as you are acussing others to be. They could have talked about it and they didn't. I think it was wrong too, but I understand he was mad. But it happens too, that the girl feels embarrased to say that she isn't feeling good or they are taught to think it's their own fault or even that thw other person might be feeling hurt if you say so. You have to take into account their culture too. Obviously, in my country we would act reeeeaaally different. But us, latinas, are used to be more hot blooded... but I get that the eastern side of the world is not necessarily like that
Actually her not telling him , is wrong
And him breaking with her just for that is also nonsense. Cause looks like he doesnt realy love her. If he really love her he would try his best..
Well we dont know how a smut author brain works...
For one all options are narrow minded. They are all biased and just like I saw a sea of comments saying the girl is inoccent and the guy is compleatly at fault I wanted to get my option across. When the comment that you say I am attaching brought something up that I didn't original mention I explained more. Which is what everyone else is doing. I am sorry but you are also attacking me and my options since I dought that you are pointing how everyone bashing on the guy are "narrow minded". I don't get how I was responding harshly since everyone is pushy with their option just like you are being as well. BTW I am aslo a latina but we're I come from people are sooo traditional and religious that is sex is taboo untill marriage. Since your stereotyping all Latinos as a hot blooded a I don't I think your considering cultural differences either. Also where I am from if your found having sex pre marriage your shammed and often married off. I still have fun regardless but I don't make it as obvious since it's thought of " indecent". But the main doesn't seem to care of making it private/ secretive so I don't see how she is reserved and shy. Man I am still too embarrassed to buy sex toys and sexy underwear since that will give me away and I'll be " lewd" but this girl doesnt mind. I get that some people in Asia are reserved. I met many transfers from Japan and China while in college that fit that image but guess I also met many that don't. But my options are not going by what a culture Is like but what the story is telling me and I dought she is shy If is described as loving sex and has tons of sex toys.
Yes thank you. I feel like he found out in the worst manner and blue up with his emotions. People are making it seem like he is trash for not talking more and for breaking up. But I think with how the situation was it was going to happen. I would have judged him badly if after he cooled down he didn't want to talk but they switched before that could happen so I don't think we can judge him after he got so mad. He asked how she was after sex and even gave her time to explain before he broke it off. He didn't even get violent which many probably would have ( not saying it's right) so I think all that just shows he cared for her. Yes he got Soo mad at the moment but I think it makes sense with the situation and three year long lie. She could have begged and tried to explain but she didn't either. So she didn't exactly communicate much either. And who doesn't get mad right at the moment. It's after the cool down that tells us more about them but I guess everyone wants to ruin him before they give him the chance.
I am sorry but I think she really should have told him. I know that a women's orgasm is harder to get but I know my body more than a guys knows it. Just like a guy had to tell me how to give a better blow job she should have told him how to pleasure herself. Like it can be hard to go past your own pleasure and realize that maybe the other isn't feeling it. That's why you ask your partner ( which the guy did and she lied and said it was fine) and why if it's not good you should tell them. Belive me it gets better when you do and it can be hot a while in the process. And honestly he found out in the worst manner and those tend to net go right. It's better for you to confess then for them to find out a different way.