I need some help. I accidentally got drunk and texted my crush. He knows I like him and we...

aika.edits_ July 21, 2019 7:31 pm

I need some help. I accidentally got drunk and texted my crush. He knows I like him and we'll I said some things that were very hurtful to him and also I said why I liked him and that no matter what it doesn't matter ever anymore. I fell asleep after texting him and when I woke up, I apologized so much but he said he needed time to think and it's been almost 2 weeks since that message and I have lost sleep over it because I do want to stay with him even if that is as a friend because he is so amazing and I love having him in my life because he makes me happy and helps me to forget my depressed moments even if it's not for long but I think I have ruined everything. Can anyone help me out please in what I need to do or say because it is hurting me so much that he is hurting. Thank you if you do help

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    exoexoexo4life July 21, 2019 7:48 pm

    Well you already apologize, there’s not much left but to wait for his reply.
    Sorry about it, hopefully he opens up. If not, hang in there. Maybe you could try calling him, to see how he’s doing?

    Lexi<3 July 21, 2019 8:22 pm

    I hate to ask but are you male or female? Because if your a male is that what he said he has to “think” about? If so I’m so sorry your going through that! Male or female that’s sucks a horrible feeling! But anyway I think the best thing you can do right now is give him sometime to process what’s going on. But don’t let the subject go unanswered.Waiting TO long for a response can be a problem so make sure his “thinking” doesn’t go on for longer than a couple more weeks. And if/when he comes to talk about it try to be “prepared” (I guess you could say) and not have any misunderstandings. If he doesn’t come to talk about it ... you may get impatient & nervous for your answer ,Anticipating something like this is always a bad feeling, but try to remain calm. If you decide to tell him how your feeling about the whole thing be honest and straight forward. It can be scary and nerve wracking but you’ll feel better once you’ve talked to him about how you feel. If being more than friends isn’t an option tell him that he’s a big part of your life and you don’t want to lose him and you’d be fine with being just friends. Communication is going to be a BIG part of this.

    aika.edits_ July 21, 2019 9:50 pm

    I'm female and thank you! I am struggling but there is some really good advice from you. I will call him and tru to communicate so thank you so much