This one guy I liked, knew I liked him, but only wanted to fool around with as many people as possible. So yeah, I started dating another guy while I still had feelings for him. Not like that relationship lasted, because the 2nd guy, could never get over an ex (and ended up marrying her eventually, but now they are divorcing).
Of course people want who they want, but life can be more complicated than just liking someone.
So because people do it in the real world it’s not gross and it’s somehow ok? How does that make sense to you?
I read a story with a similar premise by Yoneda Kou. The guy never reciprocated the other's feelings so he went to sleep with others to fill the hole in his heart. I'm not that angry about it. You can't expect them to be virgin saints while they wait for a response, especially when they're not in a relationship.
It's when you're finally in a relationship with is where it actually counts. This guy, the one in this story, he stays faithful for years to the point that he proposes to him. So yeah, I'm not worried. I personally don't find it gross.
That’s different. You literally just said Sid he didn’t have feelings for the other guy. What’s wrong with that? I can only fault him if he had feelings for him and STILL decided to sleep with other people.
I didn't??? I'm saying sex doesn't mean love. Your view seems to have the thought that he's being unfaithful to the guy and his own feels when he has sex with others. The truth is he doesn't owe anyone his celibacy especially when he's not in a relationship. He's doing it after rejection, right? He's a teen with raging hormones who makes mistakes because he's at a young age. It doesn't make his feelings for him any less different.
honestly your thoughts on the matter are pretty damn pure lol
I get what you're all saying, but I still don't like it. I like to stay true to my principles
I don’t like people who can sleep with someone else whilst they have feelings for a different person..... I think it’s gross