but i think her reactions are normal for a kid around 8 years old sure she felt guilty but tell me when you were her age did you want to play with someone younger than you?
when we are kids 1 years difference is big when it comes to age so imagine 4
plus when you are 8 you prefer hanging out with people your age and make friends with them not with younger kids plus remember that boy was “trained” to call her his bride and she from the first time she saw him she didn’t want to marry him since for her to marry a toddler traumatized her if anything their mothers are at fault for this and dont the fathers and children have a say in this ??
and finally that arranged marriage actually stopped her from having a boyfriend she probably didn’t want to have one since she didn’t want to disappoint her mom but still if she didn’t want it she should have spoken up even if her mom is going to be sad but its her happiness like would you still want to marry someone you barely know and is also barely an adult and same for him if he doesn’t want this then let him speak out about it sure their mothers are going to be sad and angry about it but in the end their children’s happiness matters more no?
You’re making up the same *she was a kid* excuse. He was a kid too, way younger than she was
The rest of your comment had nothing to do with the original comment. No, they never said *she should marry him* no. But this is the worst excuse to hurt somebody for something they had no role in
so?
i was just caught in a rant
everyone has their own opinion
plus that excuse is valid because it applies to both sides
she didn’t want to hang out with him and his mother told him they are going to see her later
plus in this case both are innocent and he should not hold grudges for something stupid
plus its a miracle he remembers something that happened when he was like 4
who remembers stuff that happened during that age ??
even if its a trauma
the body remembers not the brain
Yeah you can have your opinion, doesn’t mean that I’m not going to disagree with it
I can’t understand how hurting him because you don’t want to marry him, even tho he doesn’t have any role in it, is fine.
She was a kid, he was a kid. Then why is it different when it comes to the male?
@Blackie already said pretty much what I was going to say but since you first commented on my comment I thought I had to answer.
"he shouldn't hold grudge for something stupid" just shows how privileged you can be, how can you deem what is "stupid" and what deserves to be called a "trauma" ?? I really hope you don't act that way when people go through something and are impacted by it but you think it doesn't suit YOUR definition of "important". If he thinks it's important enough to impact his whole childhood then it is IMPORTANT not stupid.
"it's a miracle he remembers" if it's something deep enough to shape who he is then yes he'll remember, just like how kids can sometimes remember awful stuff their parents could have done, even if not in detail. Some do some don't, the brain is a complicated thing and everyone reacts differently.
"tell me when you were her age did you want to play with someone younger than you?
when we are kids 1 years difference is big when it comes to age so imagine 4"
.... Huh not everyone acts this way tho, I was in a group of friends going from the 5years old to the 10 years old, I was in the middle. I was hanging out with a guy way younger than me, of course I was closer to my female friends and closer in age, but I never hurt him.
Of course our situations are different as we saw each other as friends and at most brother/sister.
But the age difference isn't an excuse. If she can admit she was the one in the wrong and that she went too far so should you.
He was giving her a birthday gift and yet as soon as she saw his face she got frustrated.
The rest of your comments has nothing to do with my comment as I blamed HER mom (especially) for everything, and his mom for not stopping her, as well as the fathers.
Her mom put her happiness first, not caring at all about the kid's.
People hating on the male lead for holding a grudge and even laughing about it are... Kinda pathetic BUT lucky ! It just shows they never went through something that may seem unimportant to people but is highly traumatizing for you.
He was really young, she was his first love, his first (and pretty much only) friend, he was attached and she made him happy but he was rejected, humiliated and hurt (and his gift he worked really hard for was broken) because of a dumb game HER OWN mom is playing.
He did nothing wrong but got blamed the most. He was a baby of course he got broken and won't ever forget this event, not every kid has the Luck of having an easily swayed brain/memory.
You're all acting as if it was a little petty fight while it was way more important than that, it was the end. The fact that they lost touch after that couldn't allow him to forgive or forget.