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Eh... Have you ever watched hentai? Most of them (romanticize) fetishize rape and in way worst ways than yaoi, so it's not about gender at all.
Also, fictional rape can be kinda kinky (with a limit though) for some people, like me but that DOESN'T mean I support rape in real situations by ANY means
I know. I just hate that most bl is based of "he raped me so I must love him"
Why do yaoi writers insist on romaticizing rape? This would be unacceptable if he was a girl. What sort of message are they sending? If it's a guy, rape is good? I hate it