
i'll probs just declare to stay out of it and also leave my children out of the rise for power. Something like the ending of Dong Yi. Put another friend on the throne as an empress and let her take all the drama. As a person from this world, I would have lost interest for an emperor who can fuck as many as he wants and has an obligation to all his wives. I be like, no thanks, I'll just knit for orphans.

I would never want to be wife to a king/emperor or a concubine. I'd rather be the affluent person living away from the court....it sounds too damn crazy stressful dangerous, that fight for power. The "Game of Thrones" doesn't interest me. I like peace and quiet and only one woman for my man. But for those who are married off to people in high power, that's how it goes. You gotta watch your back and strike before they strike you.

Me too. if i were the character or maybe one day i write a story of my own, I would think of a way to avoid that first, no matter how good looking the character is. Only if its uavoidable, like ur already married when u woke up in the world, then i would use my plan called "Fuk this shit im out" and just stay out of the drama and curry favour with the empress so that she'll protect me, maybe even the right hand woman for the empress. Of course i would still have to watch out so that no one will use me for their plans, but beyond that, i have no interest to fight and scheme for the emperor's attention.
It's so stupid to fight for a man