
I don’t think it is cliche (except in the fact that Sumi and Utou where interested in each other before bonding and get together in end). The story progression you mentioned is a LOT more common in the Omegaverse. An Omega and Beta pairing is not as common and I know of only one story that involves an Omega and Beta pairing with a broken Alpha bond (maybe two but still not common).

Rather than the gender aspect, I think OP was focusing more on the element of love rival/love triangle in this story. Love in rivals in BL usually turn out to be evil and that becomes a strong reason for the MCs to end up together, and that is quite predictable. However, it would be more interesting if the love rival was a good person because there'd be more internal conflicts occurring (e.g. Uke feeling guilty as he seems to be taking advantage over a nice person, the nice person realising that their bond is not for proper reasons, etc.)

Torn between both sounds like every single love triangle out there. It’s been done a hundred times before just as much as the kind guy turned out to be bad.
To be honest...I would’ve enjoyed it more if Shiratori wasn’t holding a grudge against Utou. For me it would’ve been more interesting to see how Sumi and Shiratori take care of that ‘accidental’ bond.
But now that Sumi finds out that there is a way to ‘loose ones bond’ it’s pretty obvious that this is what will happen. And in the end Sumi and Utou will probably end up being a pair....quite cliché for my taste, but that’s just my opinion