Before I read, i wanna know, is there sexual harrasment from an antagonist? Or an antagoni...

BeepBopp September 23, 2019 11:11 pm

Before I read, i wanna know, is there sexual harrasment from an antagonist? Or an antagonist being too extra, such as an ex lover or a love rival who spreads rumor/make misunderstandings that causes lots of damages?
Pretty much, i dont like it when the antagonist is going overboard just because he wants the uke(its always the uke, very rarely that the antagonist is aiming for the seme)

Responses
    psychoconspicuous September 24, 2019 12:23 am

    no this one is really complex in its story line

    BeepBopp September 24, 2019 12:50 am
    no this one is really complex in its story line psychoconspicuous

    By complex, do you mean that
    the MCs will do stuff such as : i dont think he really love me / he deserves a better life / i want to escape then one of the MC running away,
    or do you mean complex because it’s a plot that makes drama outside of their relationship, such as being a vampire/job/school/etc...

    littleblue September 24, 2019 3:59 am
    By complex, do you mean that the MCs will do stuff such as : i dont think he really love me / he deserves a better life / i want to escape then one of the MC running away, or do you mean complex because it’s ... BeepBopp

    Well, it's complex couse it's way beyond romance. It starts with the tipical "friend love his best friend, but can't say it, cause it will ruin ther friendship. but something happens and they realise that they have feelings for each other and start dating". But then, the author start adding more characters and more plots, such as familly, character development, relationships of diferent kinds, trust issues, traumas, friendship, and love as something real beyond just the kiss and sex shit, but the trust, the suport, the helpping, and all of that. The more the story goes the more the autor bring development and a really nice plot and art, so it's a wonderful read, i really recommend. It does't have little love games, love triangle, or all of the cliche themes that yaoi has, its more than that. The uke it's independent, has guts and breaks that "innocent and depended uke" vibe and it's very strong and fights for his rights as a human, facing the vampires.

    BeepBopp September 24, 2019 4:21 am
    Well, it's complex couse it's way beyond romance. It starts with the tipical "friend love his best friend, but can't say it, cause it will ruin ther friendship. but something happens and they realise that they ... littleblue

    Ok great, because most yaois relies around these 3 words : stupidity/anxiousness/rape. Super stupid character thats assumes the worst when his BF says hi to a random girl and then rabdom men sexually harrass the uke is basically the core to the yaoi genre.

    Stuff about trust issues is also annoying but as long as it doesnt go overboard it’s all good, its just that author nornally makes everything way too extra but i think this one isnot going to be baseless drama.

    blatantescapist September 24, 2019 8:06 am
    Ok great, because most yaois relies around these 3 words : stupidity/anxiousness/rape. Super stupid character thats assumes the worst when his BF says hi to a random girl and then rabdom men sexually harrass th... BeepBopp

    Tbh right now it's all about vampire politics lol.

    Tweety September 24, 2019 11:04 am

    Wow your comment made me realize that there's never been a rape scene in this one Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

    blatantescapist September 24, 2019 12:34 pm
    Wow your comment made me realize that there's never been a rape scene in this one Σ(っ°Д °;)っ Tweety

    Yep! And before anyone says anything, Gunchan consented to the sex/assimilation with the CEO.ヽ(`Д´)ノ Proof: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dalkomhan_namja/mf/ibx_chapter-55/pg-3/

    afroluv September 29, 2019 1:53 pm
    Yep! And before anyone says anything, Gunchan consented to the sex/assimilation with the CEO.ヽ(`Д´)ノ Proof: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dalkomhan_namja/mf/ibx_chapter-55/pg-3/ blatantescapist

    Nah, Gunchan said that the first bite wasn't consensual so assimilation could've been used going forward...i mean i know he is immune to domination but i'm not sure about assimilation which uses their blood link

    blatantescapist September 29, 2019 2:38 pm
    Nah, Gunchan said that the first bite wasn't consensual so assimilation could've been used going forward...i mean i know he is immune to domination but i'm not sure about assimilation which uses their blood lin... afroluv

    The bite for both the main pairing AND the side pairing was not consensual.

    blatantescapist September 29, 2019 2:39 pm
    Nah, Gunchan said that the first bite wasn't consensual so assimilation could've been used going forward...i mean i know he is immune to domination but i'm not sure about assimilation which uses their blood lin... afroluv

    But the sex/assimilation WAS consensual. He doesn't get hypnotized by it. He was fully capable of controlling himself. He had punched/kicked the guy before.

    blatantescapist September 29, 2019 2:41 pm
    Nah, Gunchan said that the first bite wasn't consensual so assimilation could've been used going forward...i mean i know he is immune to domination but i'm not sure about assimilation which uses their blood lin... afroluv

    That room was flooded with assimilation but he was capable of standing and retorting back. Even vampires couldn't take the father's aura. Why is it so hard for people to believe that Gunchan was fine with it? He's like the chillest motherfucker in the comic.

    blatantescapist September 29, 2019 2:42 pm

    He didn't think, "I couldn't stop because something was compelling me." He said he didn't want to because it seemed fun. I swear to god I can write an essay.

    blatantescapist September 29, 2019 2:44 pm

    DUDE. The reason why the father can't do anything but to ask Gunchan and to win his his favor by doing shit is because he's not capable of controlling him. That's basically how it is with them. Unlike Minhoon and Hyungwoo, you see them blushing and dizzy whenever they do assimilation. You barely see any of that with the side pairing.

    blatantescapist September 29, 2019 2:45 pm

    (ง'-')ง I can and will provide links to pages to properly source and back me up......

    afroluv September 29, 2019 2:47 pm
    That room was flooded with assimilation but he was capable of standing and retorting back. Even vampires couldn't take the father's aura. Why is it so hard for people to believe that Gunchan was fine with it? H... blatantescapist

    Assimilation only works on your kin. You're taljing about domination...it's a different power

    afroluv September 29, 2019 2:50 pm
    The bite for both the main pairing AND the side pairing was not consensual. blatantescapist

    He bit minhoon by accident though?

    afroluv September 29, 2019 2:55 pm
    He didn't think, "I couldn't stop because something was compelling me." He said he didn't want to because it seemed fun. I swear to god I can write an essay. blatantescapist

    Yeah i agree he was fine with the sex

    blueninja89 September 29, 2019 4:21 pm
    But the sex/assimilation WAS consensual. He doesn't get hypnotized by it. He was fully capable of controlling himself. He had punched/kicked the guy before. blatantescapist

    the thing is none of it was consensual. The author has chosen to make Guchan so unrealistically indifferent to everything regarding the circumstances he's currently facing that it's dubious consent at the most even regarding the sex. I understand he's supposedly getting source material to write with in exchange, but because of he was initially forced to concede to the situation, he's more or less just making the most of a s shitty situation. On both occasions he was assaulted before sex occurred. He's had violence used on him multiple times at this point from the father vampire, and in order to maintain his 'casual' characterizations he's consented to things to smooth things over. I understand why the author has done this but in no way is this a realistic 'consensual' sexual relationship when he cannot exactly walk away from things now that he's literally being held captive by a vampire's desires.

    blueninja89 September 29, 2019 4:28 pm
    the thing is none of it was consensual. The author has chosen to make Guchan so unrealistically indifferent to everything regarding the circumstances he's currently facing that it's dubious consent at the most... blueninja89

    it's really Gunchan's self preservation has decided to make the most of things, which I can appreciate but does not make me love his relationship between him and the father because it is ultimately an equal power dynamic that is yet again romanticized.

    BeepBopp September 29, 2019 5:05 pm
    it's really Gunchan's self preservation has decided to make the most of things, which I can appreciate but does not make me love his relationship between him and the father because it is ultimately an equal pow... blueninja89

    I didnt read the comic, but if the uke is happy with it, then for me it’s okay, and if the uke is alwtas sad/depressed then the relationship ain’t good. The goal of all relationship is to be happy so thats what matters the most.