yall know i love yohan but

wasted October 17, 2019 9:00 pm

''even if you tell me to stop, I’m not gonna''
i honestly dont know to feel about this... i'm okay with them getting into bdsm but using sex as an *actual* punishment is pretty disguting to me

edit: Let me explain a lil bit.

I like rough play so I'm very happy they're getting into bdsm.

What I'm saying is that I dont like the way the author creates the context since the few times we see 'beast Yohan' is when he's angry or frustrated which makes me think that these sexual intercourses are someway abusive.

That said, I love Yohan, I know he's a bae and we all can see how much he cares about Soohwa.

I'm only complaining about the writting, please don't take it as an attack to the character nor the manhwa ^^

Responses
    elijah October 17, 2019 11:05 am

    Yeah true actually

    Dragon Fae October 17, 2019 11:10 am

    I second this, there should be a safe word in this chapter. I'm all for punishment play but this....
    The sentence " even if you tell me to stop, I'm not going to" gives me fifty shades of gray flash backs, like even like even just before soohwa said " ok then the safe word is peanut" that one line would have made all the rape vibes disappear.
    ( consent is not negotiable its a human right)

    Alabama October 17, 2019 11:14 am

    But it's not like yohan is actually going to hurt him. And he would stop if something actually seemed wrong

    wasted October 17, 2019 11:22 am
    I second this, there should be a safe word in this chapter. I'm all for punishment play but this.... The sentence " even if you tell me to stop, I'm not going to" gives me fifty shades of gray flash backs, like... Dragon Fae

    I totally agree with you...

    I dont think the author knows anything at all about bsdm play and she tried to fix the situation with soohwa saying 'okie dokie' which actually made the situation worse to me since that 'I'm gonna do whatever I want, I dont care about you' is so messed up

    (thinking too much about the issue, of course yohan would never hurt soohwa... but that continues buzzing in my head)

    wasted October 17, 2019 11:24 am
    But it's not like yohan is actually going to hurt him. And he would stop if something actually seemed wrong Alabama

    Yes! I know Yohan is a bae and would never hurt Soohwa but the way the author wrote the dialogues feel so wrong to me.

    GentleBloomz October 17, 2019 12:04 pm
    I second this, there should be a safe word in this chapter. I'm all for punishment play but this.... The sentence " even if you tell me to stop, I'm not going to" gives me fifty shades of gray flash backs, like... Dragon Fae

    I know the author missed up a little but yohan is such a bae! :( and he just said those words but he actually Didn’t mean it!!
    Just Wait until the next chapter and you’ll see how adorable they are :(

    Bree October 17, 2019 12:16 pm

    Also, if you remember, Soohwa gave him permission. From everything we've read, he will stop if Soohwa seriously asked him to.

    VioWizka October 17, 2019 12:54 pm

    I think Yohan would know when to stop and when is the border line. And even If he woudn't know if shoowa asked him to, he'd stop. He woudn't want to hurt him. Also Shoowa agreed to this punishment because he trusts Yohan and as he said, he knows he woudn't hurt him. I think it's more like Yohan teases shoowa and frustrate him than do something that will hurt

    GentleBloomz October 17, 2019 1:23 pm
    I know the author missed up a little but yohan is such a bae! :( and he just said those words but he actually Didn’t mean it!!Just Wait until the next chapter and you’ll see how adorable they are :( GentleBloomz

    messed up*

    Mela October 17, 2019 1:30 pm

    I don't know about y'all but I love it when my partner gets to that level, because it means trust.
    Soohwa probably thinks the same way I do, it's freaking hot and there's a lot of pleasure from not having control in a consensual way. Soohwa gave him the green light just as I do with my partner and oof! Letting them go beast mode is the best, but imo that can only be accomplished in healthy trusting stable relationships.
    Sex as "punishment" can be awesome because I mean, in my case, I know it's not punishment because I'll definitely enjoy it

    GentleBloomz October 17, 2019 2:04 pm
    I don't know about y'all but I love it when my partner gets to that level, because it means trust. Soohwa probably thinks the same way I do, it's freaking hot and there's a lot of pleasure from not having contr... Mela

    that's it!!!