Hello, so uh I have experienced something like this. I had a boyfriend who I dated for abo...

Hello, so uh I have experienced something like this. I had a boyfriend who I dated for about a year but ultimately it didnt work out at all since he was abusive and it just got worse and worse. Got to the point where I lost two of my teeth and broke some bones (not too major tho) here and there. We met again 3 years later and we pretty much became friends for a whole year bc I started to see how he really regretted it. He made no moves on me again but just became a normal friend. He dated someone while we were friends again and he was so sweet to her, it’s like he a completely different person and that made me happy. At some point they broke and then both of us started catching feeling for each other again. I thought it shouldn’t be bad at all to get back together seeing how much he has cried and regretted what he did to me before. Months into the relationship, his anger issues started to show bit by bit but I paid it no attention bc usually he caught himself doing it right away and would apologize. I wanted to help him. However one time we were texting and he asked where I was (this was around christmas time) and I said buying presents which I was but ran into an old friend. I guess he wanted to surprise me so he went to where I was and saw me chatting with the old friend. For some reason he thought I was lying to him about buying presents and got fucking mad bc he thought I was cheating (i still have no idea how tf he ended at that conclusion right away). Long story short he got a littlw abusive from that point on and I knew I had to get out of that relationship so I did right away.No matter how much someone regrets and suffers from what they did in the past, it doesn’t meant they’re not capable of doing it again. Don’t feel bad for Yohan, he did terrible things bc he let his jealousy get the best of him. He scarred and traumatized someone bc of his actions and that by itself is unforgivable. It’s great if he’s trying to change but that itself doesn’t prove anything.