Junwoo

hi~ i agree with you, especially when people hurt or attacks you, it can cause trauma. and eventually be a shut in. i have to share my story here, cuz im a shut-in too (i'll be visiting a doctor in a week).. i was sexually harassed at home and school and i got bullied since primary school, i held it all in until.. somewhere in middle school? i had enough and became a shut in. i would cry myself out, i went crazy tbh. and now i've calmed down a bit.. i have forgiven the past, but not forgotten. it's really scary to find help, since i've not gone outside or talk to people for so long.. but for me to be normal again i have to visit a doctor/psychiatrist.

and i know people may find me.. a shut in ..disgusting. but if life gets you, you just have to be in a protection bubble. that's what most shut ins do. they just don't want to live life anymore. and do what makes them comfortable. but we have to find help before it gets too late. we can't be like this forever.

also i wish people would talk more being a shut in. and what's their past experience or what happened to them? instead of giving them bad light. and causing people to look at shut ins as not human or disgusting

I agree, for me my parents would force to socialize with my cousins. Honestly I hate them all except one. They all manipulative bitches who comes to you when they need help. In school my classmates would bully me because I was very smart. I was outcasted and I was sexually harassed by one of my male cousins, my dad was abusive (verbally). The only person who ever understood me was my brother but he passed away 4 years ago. I hope both of us find a closure to our problems

I dont recommend others to force something or anything to anyone. You do it on your own pace. Take your time to recover or heal yourself. I wish everyone can understand that
..all people go through life differently and slowly. Don't force them to do something unless they.. themselves want to. The seme's example is that he didn't consider uke's feelings and he's forcing himself into his life.

Yes exactly, the seme is too pushy and inconsiderate, but somehow I feel like he has his own story to tell

everyone has a story to tell.. very true. but the phone convo tho...i ain't sure about him but we'll see(▰˘◡˘▰) I just hope our cinnamon roll uke will get through this one hell of a ride XD

I still have my doubts on the seme, believe me. The worst thing in life is having someone pushing their beliefs on you, still, I am upset, but I want to see the whole picture before judging the seme (〜￣△￣)〜

awee *headpats4u* ur a cinnamon roll too~ and true we doubt our seme but for now let's not judge first(๑•ㅂ•)و✧ *moreheadpats*