yeah, gays tend to hang out with other gays cause like we gay, and most of the time our friends end up dating our other friends or we end up befriending our exes' friends and/or our exes', exes or we end up dating our exes', exes and it gets even worse when you're polyam cause the queer world is pretty small
I wouldn't say they aren't "openly gay." Just because the first thing they tell each other isn't "I'm gay" doesn't mean they are hiding it either. In fact, none of them are hiding the fact that they're gay, they're all pretty open about it. There is zero hesitation in who they like and saying who they like. More like they're are treating being gay like being straight, they don't feel it's necessary to be like "hey, I'm gay." They just like someone and that's all that matters, which is how a lot of queer people operate as well

Idk why I feel like the orange dude gonna end up with the army dude