Depends?? lol. The first chapter had a decent enough start. The uke hesitated when the seme asked him what happened in the past. In an alternate universe the seme would have given the uke a second to collect himself before jumping on him. But nope, dude tried to dive in dick first for some reason????
Here's what I'm getting from your comment: Communication puts everyone on an equal footing so trauma is irrelevant and it's your fault if you let it stop you from 'talking things out quietly' so that means you (general) deserve the abuse or whatever happens to you after that. Ktbn.
Can they please just talk quietly?