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I get exactly what you mean, it's hard to tell partners im bisexual coz I'm not "trustworthy" and I haven't even told my parents because they don't belive it exists

I always thought that was ridiculous. Nothing is certain. Either your partner is a piece of garbage that will leave you, or they arent. Your gender and sexual orientation should have nothing to do with it.

Exactly!! They're not more or less likely to cheat based on sexual orientation and for people who are bi it just means they've picked that person over other men and women, rather that just men or women. They still chose to be with that person so why is there a big deal about not being "trustworthy".

I find it weird because all of the bisexuals I know have been in stable, long term, healthy relationships. It's like saying just because you are attracted to both blonds and brunets you can't be trusted to stick to one person. Lat I checked crap people are crap because of their personality not their sexual orientation.

That's true but people are just biphobic trash

I feel you on that. I was trying to get back with my girlfriend and because I slept with a guy once when we weren’t together, she hit me with the not trusting bisexuals But she slept with a bunch of girls

Wow I'm really sorry about that, she sounds like a bitch and it's so annoying that people like that can't see the hypocracy because labels blind them.

Had a girl I was interested in and talking to get upset that I was bisexual and, when we talked about me meeting her friends, it was on the condition that I lie and say I was a lesbian so it wouldn’t “turn into a whole thing.” It never got the chance to turn into a “whole thing,” because I ended it there.

Not disrespecting your guy's sexual orientation but as a bi person you like both genders and while a gay person is being with you they'll be uneasy thinking since you still like the other gender you would probably choose them

Very true

If your partner likes blondes and brunettes but dates you (in this fake scenario, let’s say you’re blonde), then would you always be nervous that they’d leave you or cheat on your with a brunette? Who’s to say they wouldn’t cheat on you with ANOTHER blonde?

It has nothing to do with bisexuals. It has to do with shitty people who cheat. Or even just insecure people who can’t trust their partners in a relationship. The whole “they’ll always want the other gender” argument is a stereotype that has been thrown at bisexuals to make them sound “hypersexual” and deviant for a long time from both sides.

I agree with some of your points and in fact made a similar argument above but the fear of your partner going back to the "right" gender is a bit deeper than something flippant like hair color. In an ideal world that comparison would be correct, but in today's day and age, it's quite a lot harder to be gay, so I agree with @207. If I was gay I would also in the beginning be afraid that my partner would go back to the easier gender. Easy to marry, have children, no dirty looks, society considers it to be "right" and "pure". A better comparison might be dating someone with no money. Yes, theres a higher chance someone will leave you than if you were rich, but in the end you dont want someone who's going to leave when the going gets rough. If they leave, that's their flaw and you're better off without them. That's the part that gets me in manga. Yes a bi man has a better chance of choosing a woman than a gay man, but that's a reflection on his character, not the obvious choice everyone will take when given that situation. Nothing in this world is 100%, and you should love your partner and trust them if they give you no reason to believe otherwise.

Actually some bi people are like that, not all of them. But your scenario is understandable and it could happen. They're not showing shade or hating on bi people. They're just scared.