Agree with you
I see it a little bit different.
While I agree that his background is the cause of many of his woes. I mean, I don't believe that anybody is born bad to the core. It is still true that, as of now, he is the trash of Chiwoo's life.
Where he could have been charismatic he turned manipulative, where he could have been mindful and resourceful he turned obsessive and controlling,(I can't have been the only one to feel those stalker limit yandere vibes), where he could have been strong and honest (though a little blunt) he turned a**hole.
He had a sad upbringing; but that's not all there is to it. He is not awkward about stating what he thinks, he is cowardly about his feelings and expected Chiwoo to act accordingly to his whishes, (though Chiwoo wasn't the bravest on that front either). He developped a too self-absorbed personality to really care about someone else the right way.
I join you though, I hope he gets counseling and therapy, and finds stability in his life. And so long as therapy or/and counseling doesn't happen I wouldn't recommand for him to get romantically involved.
And lastly I am revolted at the lack of smarts his father and brother are showing, mental health support shouldn't be a threat! Especially when it seems that it's their crappy way of caring that lead him to such dependent/abusive relationship model...
That was my view on the matter... Turned a little bit to the rant side.
PS:Hotness is a family trait indeed...(๑•ㅂ•)و✧
I can't help but feel for dark haired guy. I know he is violent (he didn't kill that kid though so it's violence not murder) but my heart goes to him. I think his world is too small and it all revolves around the guy he loves. He was never accepted anywhere nor loved and that guy was his everything in the past and he still is right now and being the person he is, he can't even approach this right. He can't sit with him and explain what happened in the past and promise to be better, he is too awkward to even do that...
Again, I don't condone being violent but I don't think he is a bad person and I hope this ends well for him...if not romantically, then I hope he finds stability in his life.
On a lighter note, hotness runs in his family. His older brother is smoking hot as well with his dark brooding looks