Mmmm, I am torn on this. In some aspects I find their relationship really cute, but honest...

Ryn January 6, 2020 7:29 am

Mmmm, I am torn on this. In some aspects I find their relationship really cute, but honestly, Haemin's just total lack of care for hurting Youngwon while they have sex is a complete no for me. It's not like pain is Youngwon's kink and it just looks painful for him and not like he's enjoying it. Haemin had a huge growth spurt and became giant in every aspect of his body possible and his complete lack of awareness of it and his complete lack of care for his uke is not great. Also his personality did a complete flip and it's weird, he feels like a completely different character to me. It's not like we could actually see his development or growth, just one day he was a different person with a different personality type, but maybe that's just how I feel about it. Regardless, my main issue is just his complete lack of care for how much pain Youngwon is in during sex and it honestly makes me super uncomfortable.

Responses
    hellyeahiluvyaoi January 6, 2020 1:02 pm

    Eh? Youngwon like it tho??? He asked haemin to eat so they could continue lol

    WeLoveADurrtyHo January 6, 2020 1:21 pm

    Haha true. HAHAHAHAHA

    WeLoveADurrtyHo January 6, 2020 1:21 pm
    Eh? Youngwon like it tho??? He asked haemin to eat so they could continue lol hellyeahiluvyaoi

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    Ryn January 6, 2020 8:29 pm
    Eh? Youngwon like it tho??? He asked haemin to eat so they could continue lol hellyeahiluvyaoi

    That is the only scene that indicates that he might enjoy it though, literally every time they're having sex he says "it hurts" and/or is crying, or pushing him away, or making pretty pained expressions. Still doesn't negate the fact that Haemin shows only surface level care about hurting Youngwon

    hellyeahiluvyaoi January 7, 2020 1:18 am
    That is the only scene that indicates that he might enjoy it though, literally every time they're having sex he says "it hurts" and/or is crying, or pushing him away, or making pretty pained expressions. Still ... Ryn

    Well its anal sex. Ofc it willhurt at first but good as they go on and regarding Youngwon personality I dont think he is the type to let something he didnt enjoy happen again and again ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
    Dont forget how manipulative he is from the start... Also I remember someone ever said during sex pain and pleasure only a thin diff... (sorry for bad eng)

    Ryn January 7, 2020 2:12 am
    Well its anal sex. Ofc it willhurt at first but good as they go on and regarding Youngwon personality I dont think he is the type to let something he didnt enjoy happen again and again ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭Dont ... hellyeahiluvyaoi

    I've had plenty of anal sex, if you do it correctly, the pain isn't intense enough to cry, push away, or make super pained expressions and definitely doesn't hurt the entire time. I am also into pain and am a sub, and paying attention to your partner during sex is super important and taking care of your partner during sex is super important. He was super manipulative in the beginning, but after Haemin's growth spurt, he starts to lose the control and power in the relationship and once they get into a relationship Youngwon completely drops all pretenses and is basically in the palm of Haemin's hand even before that. Plenty of people continue to do things they don't enjoy over and over again because of love, need, or something else specific to a person. When we finally started seeing Youngwon's perspective it was glaringly obvious he is exactly the type of person to keep doing something over and over again, but it was pretty obvious beforehand as well with the way Youngwon acted with that other guy who's name I can't remember in the beginning too. And I am not saying he completely doesn't enjoy it cause I think the part he enjoys is being with/connected to Haemin and the fact that Haemin is deriving pleasure from it, but their sex scenes do make me uncomfortable because he doesn't look like he's actually enjoying the act itself and Haemin doesn't seem to care much at all