
It’s Minato who decided to wait. Some people just take real slow to move on, I guess. Naoki probably just wanted to show up as an old friend and had no expectation that Minato still loves him all the same.
I understand waiting for Minato to move on before making a move, but 9 damn years is way too long. Akiyoshi is a coward (which is understandable, though, just stating the fact) if he has never ever at least got his feeling acknowledged by Minato. He was probably scared of ruining their friendship.

I dont think its bad to like someone for 9 years, but i think its pretty retarded to have a mindset *i like this person and i cant like anyone else* that mindset as a single person is quite bad and its how everyone are in mangas, for the purpose of drama, of course.
Also the 9 years thing, i guess that for Naoki to ever have feelings for Minato, Minato had to be an adult first, so It was a good move. Also, if i was im Naoki’s shoes, i would have thought that Minato would fall put of love after a few months max. Now, somehow Naoki didnt come at the coming of age ceremony, BUT after that, Naoki went to Tokyo so Minato probably didnt have a way to get to him even if he wanted to.

I totally agree. Minato chose to wait for Naoki (and that's right, he was really young and with the age gap it's better this way atm). 9 years aren't so long if you consider Minato's age (and the fact that there's an age gap of 15 years). I think Naoki just give time to Minato to live his own youth to the fullest ^.^ and probably he also want resolve his own problem with his memories first (just my opinion, of course ^^).
Yeah see...I'm not unloyal, but ....
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if I have to wait six freaking years and then another three? Hell no. It's time to move on. You have to think about yourself, and it's okay to be a selfish in a relationship you are involved in. He better have a good darn excuse. I honestly would rather ship Minato with the Akiyoshi, but reading other people's comments makes me sad.
Edit: I guess it's true that Akiyoshi had nine years to make a move, but maybe he saw Minato wasn't ready to move on or something? If he did have something to do with Naoki not showing up...well, it's still not a good excuse for waiting all those years. Maybe Minato is better off loving only himself lol