
Hmm, I think it's a yes and no.
If that's the way the uke feels, good for him for sticking to his guns. Also he kinda didn't - because he literally had sex with chef without knowing if that was his soulmate lol.
Like sure, you've got a 'fated' person - but I'm not sure that this hypothetical person is absolutely the only person you've got the capability to love? Plus we're all different with different circumstances.
I mean relationships take work - soulmates or not. If you're in a position of possibly not finding 'the one' (whatever that means - probably more then initials haha) then I don't see why you shouldn't try with others.
Isn't it sad and frustrating that people have this initials of soulmates but they stopped believing in it cuz of the chances of finding them , and they are sleeping/dating/marring with someone else??? I admire the uke's virginity of mind and body for holding to his values and has not given up the search for his mate.