certain personality types are known for being submissive in the bed. Im not talking about just yaoi either, i mean in general. I wish i could explain further but Ill just say that there is human body language subconciously used by a person as a psychological indicator. Whether they intend to emmit it or not. For example something Sam does a lot is, stroke james or gently wrap his hands/arms around another persons neck from the front. WHile this is mostly used to convey his as a 'snake", This presents a more gentle and feminine feel. Im not sayin feminine tops dont exist tho lol im just saying its stuff like that that may cause a 'top/bottom vibe" We all know that build and outward appearance (or anyting at that) never determines a persons sexual inclination (well, most of us anyway i hope). power-be to sam for topping and vice versa for james LMAO
yeah i mean no one can really tell someone's preference whether it be in gestures or anything? it just weirds me out that a lot of people in this comment section is genuinely upset that james bottoms and like, why bc he has a 'top vibe'? lol thats stereotypical as fuck.
i totally agree. Like sure, people can be surprised, I was myself. but being genuinely upset about it is just....(￣∇￣")
how does one, exactly, have a bottom or top vibe?