There is a scene where Maya is trying to talk to Nemugasa because of his insecurities and being anxious over Maya's friendship with Ruka. http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hidoku_shinaide/tr/1663418/page/24/
Maya said "but he's a man, so I'll never think of him in that way.... Although.. I was forgetting that you're one, too."
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hidoku_shinaide/tr/1663418/page/18/
Maya "There's no way I'd ever be with him. Doesn't he realize that he's a man..?"
Maya's words supports Anastasia.blue.april. This is about a year and half of dating Nemugasa. (Nemu to Maya's dad in Vol 7 ch 4)
I think I remember there is another time where Maya will say he did not think that Nemu would get jealous of Ruka because he was a man but he was naive to think that. Or something sorry it has been awhile since I read this and I remember
I know Maya was closed off with some "gay" activities at first but started to open up to some later. Giving a blow job to Nemu has been one. His first time was funny. haha
Then he is bisexual, done.
Thank you! I missed points and still can’t remember where one of the things he said is. I am planning to re-read this soon. Few points is how he acts to nemu’s college friend with being with someone like Maya. It is okay with so much material it would be hard after not reading it after so long.
Thanks again. ^^
Hey Peach! I understand what you put. He has been with women and Nemu. Therefore, he is bisexual.
However, the question is “Old subject but does maya considers himself bisexual or gay?“
Maya considers himself straight with the except of nemu. and he even says he forgets Nemu is a guy.
I feel He is one of those to fall in love with someone but not by gender. To does not matter of gender, color, size, or etc just who they are. Nemu makes him feel complete and does not matter if he is a man. But Maya is turn off by some homosexuality activities.
Yes since he has been with girl and Nemu he is bisexual. Maya does not see it that way.
He may consider himself a straight but he is bisexual, he can't get away from that fact :)
Haha I did not disagree with you. It just was not the answer.
Yeah I know. And I just added to the answer that I gave that Maya IS really bisexual :)
He says he’s still straight even tho he likes nemu, but we all know he’s gay/bi/pan lmao
I can agree with mostly straight besides Nemu, I can agree with bisexual even though he is only interested in one male and put off by some situations. I can see pansexual. Maya is more likely a pansexual character. All three of these works......>>
However, the story disagrees with Maya being Gay...... http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hidoku_shinaide/tr/166341494/ pages 29-30.. He thinks about all the females he liked that dumped him and he is still reading the straight erotic novels. (Volume 6 chapter 2) He hated that the library did not have any. He reading the erotic novels in a few doujinshi's. He does hate some gays activities and doesn't like it been said to him when Okino wants to a boyfriend like Him. (volume 4, chapter 19). (and other times.)
I think he is demisexual regarding men. Because I am also a bit like Maya I am a straight girl so I don't like girls in that way. I am in love with my friend who is a girl. It's like I am only gay for ber you know. I am certain I don't find other girls sexually attractive other than her. Well it's just my opinion.
You're welcome:)
When was the first time, that maya gave Nemu a Blow job? Which chapter?
All ready answered that on your topic. I had to look for that...
AH!!! That is what I was trying to say but I did not know it was called demisexual.. Earlier I put, "I feel He is one of those to fall in love with someone but not by gender. To does not matter of gender, color, size, or etc just who they are. Nemu makes him feel complete and does not matter if he is a man." Now I can just say demisexual..
Totally makes sense, I know there was were like over 10 sexualities and many different types of genders... I just never looked them all up.
Thank you for your reply!!!
Thank you.. Now it is Maya either bi/pan/demi for anyone who read this topic. lol. but for me .... he is really only into nemugasa and not attracted to men.. so I don't think bi works in a way but I understand others views he has been with both women and a man. to me it is pan/demi..
I think demisexual really fits with what you are saying here..we both had the same thought but did not know the word. funny ^^.
I knew there were other sexualities but I never looked them and now I wished I had. It would helped earlier. I was going to research it because I had the same thought about labeling him. I did not like it because to me bisexual did not fit. Also, I don't like labels. I don't like the terms fujoshi and fudanshi. (rotten girl, rotten boy) I don't like the term yaoi... + Yama nashi, ochi nashi, imi nashi (山[場]なし、落ちなし、意味なし) "No peak (climax), no fall (punch line/denouement), no meaning". I am okay with shōnen-ai .
I don't understand why we have to label as humans.
Sorry for my rant..>>
Totally agree with it does not matter if he and Nemu are happy. ^^
You're welcome :) I really like the way you put it 'to fall in love with the person itself rather than the gender ', I like the sound of that. Yeah you are right there really are so many genders its hard to keep up. At first I only knew about the three genders bi, homo and hetero, so for some time I felt confused about what to identify myself as but fortunately someone helped me. So yeah.
Did you read my first comment in this topic?? In the manga, Maya has clearly established what he considers himself.
I am the same with Maya. I have a girlfriend, I am a girl, and we are dating for almost 9 years.
I am straight.
No I don't fall for other girls nor lesbian. Why I say that?
There was a time where we got into a huge fight and did not see each other for 3 months, on those months I had a suitor, Lesbian, and even more beautiful than my girlfriend but I find it somewhat disgusting and I feel uncomfortable (Please dont hate me Lesbians). And whenever a lesbian knows that my partner is a lesbian, sometimes they hit on me but I still feel I'm straight when I am being courted with other Lesbians.
I love my girlfriend just because and not because she is a Lesbian who acts like she is the Man in our relationship.
Maybe you will find this funny, or think I am just making this all up. Suit yourselves since I really cannot force you to believe me.
But with Maya's case that He is straight but only falls for Nemu. I can totally vouch that there are such Person and one of those is me.
Personally, I hate labels...you fall in love with a person. Your heart does not know the difference in sexual genders, you have a body type that turns you on and both male and female can have that body type. There is an old saying "Love has no..." just saying!!!
Old subject but does maya considers himself bisexual or gay?