
oh god i understand you. i got my ear's pierced by an actual piercer in a tattoo shop, but i also had a small stud and you know how the first few days, weeks your ear is sore or swollen, so my ear swelled up causing the front of the piercing to go into my ear had no choice but to go back to the shop and she had to pull it from the back ( ̄へ ̄)

Well if your protheses is to small you should wait a bit before adding a new one and bigger one.
Your ear need to heal.
I'm going to get my last one (7) in a few week so. I always wait a month before getting a new one.
But careful people when you start getting piercing you can't stop (I have 6 like I said before)
Don't forget to take care and clean the holes regularly AND the earrings.
Don't get greedy with the amount of disinfectant you put.
i got my ears pierced last february, one of the studs ended up getting stuck in my ear, and the hole closed up. had to go to urgent care to get my ear cut open so they could take my earring out. another ear infection story!