I'm so glad of the ending. Hyunjin is not toxic at all, he gave him a choice, time and spa...

Renツ February 8, 2020 2:16 am

I'm so glad of the ending. Hyunjin is not toxic at all, he gave him a choice, time and space to think, just like what normal people do when trouble comes to a relationship. If you dont do it w your partner then you should practice it.

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    KittyKatCremer February 8, 2020 9:10 am

    You should never MAKE someone chose. That’s toxic, you’re hurting them by doing that. You tell them how you feel and give them time make their choice but you never say “you need to choose”. It may be normal but it shouldn’t be, compromises is how to keep a relationship stable. Not “my way or the highway”.

    my-chan February 9, 2020 11:24 pm
    You should never MAKE someone chose. That’s toxic, you’re hurting them by doing that. You tell them how you feel and give them time make their choice but you never say “you need to choose”. It may be no... KittyKatCremer

    Whoa... you really are dumb

    KittyKatCremer February 10, 2020 4:40 am
    Whoa... you really are dumb my-chan

    Excuse me? Uh no..... I’ve lived with abuse and toxic people. I know toxic when I see it. I’ve lived through it. Also, never call someone dumb again. Do you like it when people call you dumb? No, so don’t do it to others. Negativity and name calling is toxic too fyi.

    ashiyel February 10, 2020 4:40 am
    You should never MAKE someone chose. That’s toxic, you’re hurting them by doing that. You tell them how you feel and give them time make their choice but you never say “you need to choose”. It may be no... KittyKatCremer

    It depends on the situation. In their case, Jungyeon really needed to choose one to not lose both. And look what happened, he chose one and ended up having both.

    I just think that it's wrong for you to use the word 'never'. Imagine your lover cheating, would you say "It's okay. Take your time." instead of saying "Him/her or me?"