but like trauma is not fun, trust me. it’s hard for him to trust and even if this is fictional y’all need to be more ~respectful~
well, we can all agree that having trauma is not fun. People who have trauma and mental health issues should seek help or at least declare it if they know the person long enough. At the end of the day, it's one's own problem, not everyone else. We-as outsiders, can only feel bad, be more understanding towards the person if we know. Jensen didn't know Niel has trauma. All he knows was he got rejected and fed words into his mouth. It's not Jensen fault for Niel's insecurity. If Niel wants it, he has to come and get it. It's not Jensen's responsibility to keep him feel safe, wait for him if Niel doesn't talk
Niel keeps victimizing himself