
and before someone says that hayan is a man that cross dresses... she (they literally use female pronouns to address her) explained that she feels like a woman and her whole life hated that she was born as male and thus acts and presents herself as female. That is literally being trans. This story is just a mess that completely misunderstands and misuses sexuality/gender

Hayan herself has talked about her gender dysphoria and on top of that the people around her refer to her as a woman. She’s transgender. Not just a male in female clothes. Whether or not this shitshow of a story realises that is very questionable lmaooo but I guess that’s the point I’m trying to make. It’s completely clueless on how sexuality and gender works, I mean, clearly.

Yeah if you have no self esteem and can't fathom the idea that someone might not have the perfect fucking body. People have different bodies and only an idiot would focus on one random part of the body as a metric by which they judge partners. It isn't gay to date a trans woman. Unless you are also a woman. Then it's pretty gay.

Dude everything in someones body can turn the other off! Usualy characters that crossdress in anime are called traps for the same reason: they expect a cute girl but are disapointed to find out that underneath it's a guy
Now if you learn to love someone by their personality that's another thing but you can get turned off still
Humans are fragile and everything can tick them off especially when it comes to a relationship like this
lol what he literally just admitted that he’s gay no matter how hard he tried to deny it then goes to ask hayan out ????????? girl what