you do know this is basically saying "get over it", right?
like, I really don't mean to be rude but who are you to dictate he comfort? the fact that she even gets out the house knowing men are outside is surprising considering her reaction
besides, wouldn't this story BE about her becoming "reasonable"?
No. That decides on how you interpret what I said. I mean she needs to come to terms with her trauma because it's obviously affecting her daily life. There is proof, on this, etc the chapters. She needs to be reasonable by like, having correct opinion or reasons for judging someone like that, but shes not because she's having these illusions. If I found someones wallet, first, i would open it, try and see and address or a phone number. Phone number? Call it. Tell them you have it and try to meet up somewhere, or if they dont answer the phone or if there's no phone number then I'd go to the address to drop it off, again. She's being unreasonable because she started crying and having a panic in public. She's letting her past judge the opinion of others now, which is okay to a certain degree. (Personally. I wouldn't mind if someone dropped something I lost off at my house, as long as I do not see them ever again, or it becomes creepy.) I'm not just basically saying get over it.
Also, dunno what this story would BE like. Haha. nice choice of caps (lol) anyways I didn't check the tags, but I would not assume this is a tragedy, I think it's a romance.
I understood a lot of what you were saying until you said "She's being unreasonable because she started crying and having a panic in public."
she clearly didn't want to panic, much less cry in public, but what that stranger said clearly brought back bad memories that she isn't able to handle right now
I want to say PTSD but I'm a braincell away from being full idiot so I'm not sure however there clearly is something up
I know there's no tragedy but for a second I thought there was slice-of-life or something
also completely off note her but you are much braver than I, if I found a wallet by chance in a store I'd hand it over to an employee, if I found one on the street I'd panic and not know what to do
but back on key, why didn't the stranger leave it with the employee or let the employee give it to the person she was with?
No duh! I can understand basic human emotion. Alright? No one WANTS to have a panic in public. I'm just saying that she should try to calm herself and not judge people too much based on her past trauma, and her now illusions. The stranger brought back bad memories. Oh is that HIS FAULT? It's no ones fault for a trigger of PTSD Or anything. Also I don't think it's PTSD...? Because that usually happens during high stress things, like I don't know WAR? also thanks for saying I'm brave xoxoxo
People can get PTSD from any overly stressful or traumatic incidents and yes, stalking could be one of those incidents if it was that extreme for the individual. But yeah, she probably doesn’t have PTSD but more extreme anxiety. Your comment kinda made it sound like you were saying “I don’t like her because she’s not trying hard enough to fix herself” (which of course, I’m not saying that’s what you said. I’m just getting that message from how it’s worded so sorry if I’m wrong.) even though people with her condition actually wouldn’t have done any better (like heck, she went up to him and apologized in one of the chapters. That’s a strong thing to do with extreme anxiety. Especially since he’s still terrifying in her eyes.) It’s hard for any human to stop how they judge others when it comes to appearance so getting rid of her kind of trauma wouldn’t be any easier. Anyways, that’s probably why the other person found your comment offputing.
I don't like her. She has problems and disillusions about people. Especially men I assume. She isn't comfortable going near them, its obvious, or she isnt comfortable with people at all unless female? She needs to take care of her trauma and im not just saying "Get over it" but i'm saying shes being unreasonable.