YES thank you! I've also had a bdsm relationship and seeing this I had to stop
Right I am switch and wouldn’t tolerate this shit like ever
Thank you for your hardwork!! There was this manga/manhwa that had bdsm that had very intricate details (in my ignorant opinion - no prior knowledge) had a safe word and had partner confidentiality cant remember!!! It had suits! PFT
Exactly! These relationships require mutual trust and a lot of formatting. I know fifty shades of grey is... something... but tbh it did a good job with contracts and making sure everything was outlined and ok
Ok. I'm a Dom (like, an actual person who's done BDSM relationships), and I would never do what he did. My sub's comfort is my number one priority and if I create a situation where my sub feels unsafe and anxious, that means I've failed as a Dom.
Abandonement is something you NEVER hang over your sub's (or anyone's really) head like that. If my sub did what Puppy-kun did here, I would stop the session full stop, calm him down and then talk. I would need to know what happened and what triggered his distress so I could in the future create a situation where he feels safer.
The contract itself is exceptionally shady since there was no safe word introduced and it implied the sub is not allowed to say no. But the top's reaction to his sub's obvious distress is IMHO a bigger red flag. That's just straight up emotionally abusive.
Still waiting for the day yaoi writers ACTUALLY do their homework before writing stories about "BDSM" relationships. Smh.