Why are ya'll telling Sanho to hurry up? Lol He has voiced his feelings and inner conflict...

mayinu April 9, 2020 11:20 pm

Why are ya'll telling Sanho to hurry up? Lol He has voiced his feelings and inner conflicts more than once. It's Dongha who fails to understand him and himself and always shuts up when he needs to express himself the most. Dongha needs to figure out what he wants and why, so he can reassure Sanho, who has stated that he is afraid of affection due to his past experiences.

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    Gin.cat April 9, 2020 11:43 pm

    For reals... don't underestimate insecurities. Feel like Dongha should realize that

    Fernando April 10, 2020 12:27 am
    For reals... don't underestimate insecurities. Feel like Dongha should realize that Gin.cat

    That moment when Dongha almost says that he loves Sanho, but stops himself right before (/TДT)/

    Dark-senpai April 10, 2020 12:54 am

    E x a c t l y

    Love,Asami April 10, 2020 9:50 pm

    I don’t think Dongha confessing his feelings is going to solve the issue and Dongha knows that. Dongha is well aware of sanho’s personality and the fact that he doesn’t believe that he deserves positive feelings. Sanho is trying to run away from Dongha and he’s only being kind to him (this is evident from his monologue where he says he is more comfortable now that Dongha is not kind to him) if Dongha was to say he’s in love with him Sanho would run for the hills like his pants were on fire.

    Gin.cat April 11, 2020 1:35 am
    I don’t think Dongha confessing his feelings is going to solve the issue and Dongha knows that. Dongha is well aware of sanho’s personality and the fact that he doesn’t believe that he deserves positive f... Love,Asami

    The way I see it is that Sanho, who obviously liked Dongha from the start, acts that way cuz he isn't sure wut their relationship is and he doesn't know if Dongha likes him romantically at all so he's tryna stay away so he doesn't catch harder feelings. I'm pretty sure wuts going through his head is, "does he actually like me? Or am I going to hurt myself by jumping to conclusions again?". I feel like Sanho is just a hardcore romantic and it doesn't help that he has a lot of insecurities. So I feel like if Dongha told him straight up that the reason he treats him so kindly is cuz he likes him, then he might start to think about it and calm down.

    Fernando April 11, 2020 1:43 am
    The way I see it is that Sanho, who obviously liked Dongha from the start, acts that way cuz he isn't sure wut their relationship is and he doesn't know if Dongha likes him romantically at all so he's tryna sta... Gin.cat

    Sanho more likely thinks: Dongha is doing this to me bc he is kind, he doesn't have romantic feelings for me.
    You're right about the rest though. (Imo)

    Gin.cat April 11, 2020 2:18 am
    Sanho more likely thinks: Dongha is doing this to me bc he is kind, he doesn't have romantic feelings for me. You're right about the rest though. (Imo) Fernando

    Yeah I agree with u. He most likely thinks that

    mayinu April 11, 2020 2:48 am

    Dongha confessing wouldn't solve the issue right away, but it would certainly move things forward. Sanho still can't tell what's going through his mind because Dongha is never clear about things with him lol. On the other hand, Sanho has been a lot more honest about why he has that attitude. That's why I'm saying Dongha is falling behind in the expressing yourself clearly department.