Yes, Asahi only did that to poke fun at Masato but what he did is insensitive. If you are constantly being told by your lover how much they love big boobs that can make you feel insecure. Especially when Masato himself will never have what Asahi want, which is big boob. Moreover, Asahi usually make general joke and never about a specific person that is why it flip Masato when Asahi especially name a woman name. A joke is to be enjoy by all side not just from one side. I know Asahi didn’t mean any harm from his joke but Masato remember every of those words.
Yeah same I’d be really insecure if my SO kept joking about big boobs. Even as went on between our relationship, I’d still have that thought in the back of my mind thinking,”Is she going to leave me because my boobs aren’t big enough?”
Yes yes that’s how I wanted to explain it
I truly understand what u mean. However what I was trying to say was that to all those calling asahi a jerk and hating him and whatever. I wanted to say that asahi is not hurting masato on purpose, to him it’s a lovers joke however as an (ex) hetero he fails to see that it could be an insecurity to a gay person dating a former straight person. That’s what I meant
. Sooo I just read this manga called “wish me love” so the uke is homophobic and ends up falling mad hard for the seme and even apologizes twice for being homophobic cuz the first time he apologized was when he was drunk. And he even just openly and boldly came out to his friends about him now dating a guy (which is surprising considering he was once homophobic) but anyways the manga showed me that most homophobes don’t actually mean harm is just they are so close minded and they grow up in an environment that says “straight is normal” so we can’t blame them. Just as homophobes think u are trash the moment u are gay, we also in turn believe they are trash the moment they are homophobic. They are good people just dummies. Anyways I felt it relates to this topic of asahi so I just wanted to recommend.
Oh heads up the uke was so damn homophobicly annoying at the beginning but hang tight he is actually a good sweet person. Give reading it a try
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/wish_me_love/?av=1
It really can get hard like I really wanted to step on the uke’s face at first
Lol why people getting mad about the “women boobs comments” they were just asahi joking because it’s pretty funny to see masato jealous. That’s why when masato didn’t react when he made a comment on his friend he was worried and asked “what’s wrong isn’t this the moment you get mad at me” it’s like a lovers joke really but masato’s insecurities covers it and asahi being an ex-hetero old uncle doesn’t notice. I mean it’s not like he actually did went to touch a woman’s boobs after all his comments. People don’t let ur good thoughts be changed just cuz everyone is hating. Take moments to consider