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Fallynn April 16, 2020 12:26 pm

I cant say I love the doctor's personality right this second either, but I'm going to wait until after their side story ends before I comment too much on it. When it comes to characters, whether seme or uke, with difficult or bad personality traits I try to remember that there is a thing called character development. You know that thing that characters go through that can either shift them to change for the better or the worst?

People read about a uke that has multiple sex partners and they wont stop to give a great and understanding seme a chance. However later down the line he realize sleeping around isn't what he wants, he just wants the love and attention of the one seme and presto...happily ever after. "The uke was so slutty. The seme deserves better." "I really hate how weak the uke was. He could have done x y and z so he didnt get exposed to said lifestyle."

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and just about everything is related to real life because hell that's normally where the experiences come from, but when I read some of the comments like this I think, "Wow. Alot of people have no hope for positive permanent change or development." Like can the uke who slept around alot, really not change for the better? Can he really not realize that the seme is a more healthy relationship and make change and love to stay with just him and be happy?

Also can he not be weak to harsh life experiences? Like not everyone is built mentally buff, to handle certain experiences. Also who determines that this uke isn't exactly what the seme needs? For all intents and purposes as their story continues beyond what we could read the uke could become the backbone of the relationship later on.

I know some of you probably have a had and or witness situations like this that have ended negatively so you reflect it on to the story. I mean these stories are meant to pull these emotions from us whether happy, sad, or mad. But not every story even similar ones will all end the same.

Ugh, I said all that to say, Yes the doctor is unsavory right now. When the end comes will he get better? I dont honestly know. Maybe this is his permanent character, but I'll wait and enjoy the story hoping things turn out better for the two of them. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

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    Chae_Rin April 16, 2020 1:03 pm

    How do you not have more upvotes!! You really just explained everything so well and so eloquently, i wish more would see it from this POV as well