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i dont think the dom is a seke i think he prefers to just be seme, but yes i agree with you the whole point of bdsm is to have fun within your limits you should always respect each other and stop when someone gets pushed to far not punish them bc they got scared
I think safe words are for when you’re doing S&M play. I have not seen them do any S&M play. It’s mainly been role play. With role play you can easily say No without being misunderstood or you can just get up an ld leave because you’re not hanging from the ceiling by the nipples lol. The point of a safe words is to avoid misunderstandings. Example is when you’re whipping someone, in order to know if they are crying out of pain or pleasure you put a safe word cause it’s hard to distinguish between the two. If they are tied up they can not physically remove themselves from bondage so they use a safe word to let the other know they want to be freed! Such a misunderstandings or physical limitations are rare for roleplaying where the other party can just speak out or leave if they’re not comfortable! If I’m roleplaying outside sex with my partner and I decide I don’t like it I can just put on my cloths and leave without needing a safe word. Get it? :)
i know right?? i was so surprised! i hope they change that soon enough. we want our baby to say no when he doesnt want to anytime
Oh yeah, I meant to say seme! (￣∇￣")
This is puppy play which I believe is a type of BDSM. Plus they've done stuff like sense play, which I'm pretty sure falls into BDSM umbrella. It may be lighter BDSM, but I would argue that it's still BDSM. And, he was physically restrained when he said no (he had his hands cuffed behind his back).
Yes but BDSM has different plays. A safe word is exactly what it means “Safe” to keep the sub safe. When he was cuffed and said NO his Partner should have obviously stopped immediately. That that needed a safe word, it wasn’t a situation where you could mistake No for anything else but No. Safe words are specifically for pain and pleasure play. In that situation their Handcuffs play wasn’t a pain for pleasure, there was no way the dorm could have mistaken the Uke’s NO reaction as pleasure. At this point a safe word is unnecessary. The Uke’s displeasure can be voiced out with a simple No.
Ok, so I like this, but why didn't they set up a safe word? And the whole thing about how he can't say no? YES THE FUCK HE CAN! Everyone has limits and boundaries, like when he cross dressed. That was a triggering thing for him that he shouldn't have to do. Yes, he eventually agreed, but had there not been that rule in their agreement, then he may not have felt obligated to agree to it. And then the seke/dom decided to end it JUST because the uke/sub set a fucking boundary?! WOW! And don't get me started on the COMPLETE LACK OF AFTERCARE! The uke/sub is SO incredibly new BDSM, and even sex in general, you would think the seke/dom would take that into consideration, but noooo. （￣へ￣） Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
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