I never got how your bf dressing like a girl made them more attractive.... im gay i like g...

Gay_Fuck April 23, 2020 1:09 am

I never got how your bf dressing like a girl made them more attractive.... im gay i like guys i like seeing you as a guy... its ao confusing to me...

Sn: i have dressd as a slutty maid b4 so its not completely lost on me but still confusing

Responses
    GEH April 23, 2020 1:59 am

    Yeah I'm not gay or a man so I couldn't relate but it always sat weird with me. Like isn't a partner chosen based on how their original gender appeals to a person?

    Anonymous April 23, 2020 2:14 am

    People can be bisexual

    Mya April 23, 2020 2:44 am

    I always hated this trope, like? It doesn't make sense

    Anonymous April 23, 2020 3:51 am

    Imo it's cause lots of mangaka have a terrible understanding of same-sex relationships to the point of having borderline homophobic views despite drawing BL. That's why the whole masculine seme/feminine uke dynamic is so set in stone instead of having vers characters ("because the bottom character is playing the female, duh"), and there's the terrible "I love you for who you are, not for your gender" trope, which maybe makes sense for pan/bi folks but not the majority of "straight-turned-gay" (which is totally bs) characters. I mean, sure, physical appearance isn't everything when it comes to attraction but it's definitely super super important!

    muimerp April 23, 2020 6:21 am

    lol whenever shit like that happens i just assume the dude is bi or that they just think they look cute the most literal sense of the word (which only rlly works if they dont outright say they look hot or sth kinda sexual or whatever lol)

    YeetTheOtaku April 23, 2020 11:14 pm

    Idk I just think that if you like someone they’re cute no matter what they wear so if they’re in a wig or a pretty dress you still think they’re cute- it’s not like you’ll forget what gender they are

    Gay_Fuck April 24, 2020 12:42 am
    Imo it's cause lots of mangaka have a terrible understanding of same-sex relationships to the point of having borderline homophobic views despite drawing BL. That's why the whole masculine seme/feminine uke dyn... @Anonymous

    Yesss omg... yess to everything you said

    Gay_Fuck April 24, 2020 12:44 am
    Idk I just think that if you like someone they’re cute no matter what they wear so if they’re in a wig or a pretty dress you still think they’re cute- it’s not like you’ll forget what gender they are YeetTheOtaku

    So if your man dresses as a girl will you get turned on??? I wouldnt... I like muscles .. veins in the arm... slightly hairy chest... i dont wanna see my man as a girl i dont like girls.. they cute but im gay for a reason... SHOW ME THE DICK LOL

    Pidapipo April 24, 2020 3:07 am

    I’m pan and it’s true I don’t really care if my partner dresses up feminine or masculine. BUT I do get it that that is not how it is for the rest of the world, most people are only attracted to a gender and seeing their partner dressed up as the opposite gender may be a big No.

    muimerp April 25, 2020 3:17 am
    So if your man dresses as a girl will you get turned on??? I wouldnt... I like muscles .. veins in the arm... slightly hairy chest... i dont wanna see my man as a girl i dont like girls.. they cute but im gay f... Gay_Fuck

    forgot to add but to be fair not everyone is masc for masc n all that shit. like some gay guys may be perfectly fine with/attracted to femme gay guys. doesnt mean they like pussy all of a sudden bc theyre still into a guy with traditionally feminine clothes, hair, mannerisms, etc. one of my close friends isnt femme per se but he is very often mistaken for a woman (i dont rlly see it but ig its because were close lol) and he still pulls gay guys. but of course this is all just irl stuff. when it comes to fiction written by straight women its usually bc they straight up don't understand gay relationships and always go for shitty tropes that border on heteronormative lol (i have seen far to many bl where the mc is basically just a shoujo manga heroine with a dick slapped on. short, skinny, weak, obnoxiously shy uwu type of shit. u get the gist haha)

    Gay_Fuck April 25, 2020 3:47 am
    forgot to add but to be fair not everyone is masc for masc n all that shit. like some gay guys may be perfectly fine with/attracted to femme gay guys. doesnt mean they like pussy all of a sudden bc theyre stil... muimerp

    I understand... i am what you would call feminine looking even though im 6’0 which is y i stated in op that i have dressed as a slutty maid n its not completely lost on me... but i still find it kinda weird... n i find it uncomfortable when a guy constantly wants me to dress girly... but i find thats more in bi men or pan men... not gay men