Although he was judging the father solely by the way he looks, he is not judging the FMC just by the way she looks, but also by the way she acts which is unfriendly at best.
In a way I kinda get it
Just a while ago I met my aunties dog for the first time
She is a pit ( of course I've met bunch of pits and I even have two pit mix pups so this wasn't my first time meeting one) for some reason even though I knew she was a nice big and didn't even look my way yet my body just jumped back, twice. Right after I went up to her and just played with her like I would normally ( total sweetie btw)
Anyway his reaction might just be a natural response to something scary looking he hasn't said anything too bad (I think) and is just trying to be nice
yea but he immediately believed rumors and has been referring to her as "the bully", not cool. It seems he is always needing his grandma to set him straight.
I agree but also disagree because I understand both sides.
It's true that it's not good to judge based on appearance, but our body/mind is kinda wired to behave that way (kinda like survival instinct). When he saw a big, scary guy in the elevator, his instinct was to avoid getting on his nerve. Same with the girl when he saw that she was unfrienly and scary and supposed to be a "bully".
It's kinda like when you walk home late at night, and you see a big guy with a hoodie over his head, your body would tense up and you would get nervous because his appearance looks scary/shady.
Once again, you are excusing her rude and violent behavior and blaming the whole situation on him. If I offered someone a drink and they violently smashed it out of my hand for no apparent reason and walked away with a glare in their eyes, I, too, would consider them to be violent and rude if they did not subsequently apologize for their behavior.
Maybe Grandma ought set the FMC straight, as well, since she certainly needs behavior correction just as much as the MC.
Wow in this comment I didn't even mention her behavior, just his. But if you want to bring that up sure, if someone put something in my face out of nowhere then I would probably have a similar reaction. Oh and come on "violently smash"? she slapped the soda out of his hand. You act like she some violently rude bitch but she doesn't go out of her way to harm anyone, and it's much more likely that she's freaked out by being the center of attention so she does everything she can to isolate herself.
Yup, like I thought, you just can't help but excuse her violent and rude behavior and now we know why: you, yourself, admit that you would also act in a violent and rude manner.
wat? Dude is common courtesy 101 that you don't get in other people's personal space, especially women. You never know how someone is going to react. A lot of my friends have had horrible experiences so they are super guarded when it comes to stuff like this, that's why I'm able to understand this reaction. I guess you think it's fine to invade other people's personal space and when they don't react how you want then to, then they are the ones in the wrong.
Keep on guessing! It's hilarious you talking about common courtesy and defending the violent and rude behaviour of the FMC in the same breath. Calling offering someone a drink as the MC did getting in the FMC's personal space is quite a stretch.
you must be bitch fuck off and suck a shit cunt
she is retarded shit that think acting rude can be excused
ohh aren't you just a ray of sunshine, love you too ( ˘ ³˘)
Swearing like some angry middle schooler isn't going to help get your point across.
Honestly arguing like that is just a bit immature and it's hard to take seriously when you're trying to come off as big strong UwU aggressive over the internet.
Please don't take this the wrong way currently my phone won't allow me to block notifications and all of this is kind of sad
You and me both ╥﹏╥ . There's no mute button on my notif for a topic I created.
Woah I thought I was alone on this one, hang in there mate :')
you right, sorry for being childish. I really shouldn't involve other people in my petty arguing.
Wah cool. You don't have to be sorry
I have literally nothing else to do during this quarantine other than like online work but no one really has time for that
But some tips to use in the future when arguing with someone with more of a temper,
Just stay cool and collected and feel free to just poke fun at whomever you're arguing with.
Same goes for someone who is pretty nice or just seems cool. Honestly with those type of people all you have to do is listen to their side of the arguments and provide reasonable counter arguments and you both can leave with your dignity intact.
Just don't get too into it because really unless they said something offencive you shouldn't give more then just a pinch of shit.
Honestly had some pretty engaging conversations here :)
Anyway I'ma go back to procrastinating
Ahaha thanks, I really appreciate the advice. Also, it might sound weird but I kinda enjoy arguing about stuff like that and getting a bit heated but once yall commented I realized how annoying it was to be forced into that conversation ╥﹏╥. Hope you have fun procrastinating!
Not gonna lie, its kind of annoying how much he judges the fmc and her father by the way they look. （￣へ￣）