So the seme wants the uke just to be his partner in DS relationship without involving love, this can actually happen irl. Kinda like sex friend on another level, and not romantic relationship. They won't go on date, no involvement in personal lives, no physical affection outside of the SM play, basically nothing any couple does. Many becomes a romantic couple without being in love for many reasons, this is what he's saying he can do, but he's bad at it so he doesn't want to, I think it's thanks to some trauma he has from the flashback. While the uke who actually likes him, since he have no knowledge of DS relationship, he thought that it's the same as dating, that's why he was asking what you're wondering about and gets disappointed when he heard the answer. I hope it's clear enough, sorry if I'm bad at explaining ><
Please someone explain to me...uke said to seme after hearing the separation of affection and bdsm plays that "is what they have now different? "
What does he mean ??? Did he mean is having affection in the play different or did he mean sarcastically that they are already not affectionate.
I thought uke was shocked and sad after hearing loveless relationship.
seme said : "I can have love affairs without falling in love...but he is not good at it" ...so can he or can't he????