The difference is that watching irl is ewwww. Atleast for me. And reading it when its about 2 characters i love is just . Idk why but it just is
tbh i like this portrayal of BDSM cause it’s accurate af and it’s not done wrong from my prior knowledge about BDSM
Its not that i dont like bdsm, but looking at it irl makes me cringed. Probably cause its fake but whatever lol. I like this tho. How they show it is and i love this ship
that’s completely valid. you don’t need to enjoy actual bdsm. but i agree with you on the ship, and how they act. it’s hot fr
normally, i hate the kinky bdsm sex scenes cuz i cringe at them but for some reason, im fine with this? yo wtf