I kinda want for them to change roles, that would be interesting to see

Mafiimafii May 4, 2020 1:20 am

Why is not a thing on the BL community, I never understood the bottom and top thing when in reality gay people change roles, It would be much interesting and fun for them to change and try

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    Zelrooki May 4, 2020 3:01 am

    Ikr!!! I for a stooopid second thought hojun would be getting the dickin but it was just a ride. Would’ve been nice to have a switch couple but nope. ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    beetle May 4, 2020 6:06 am

    it's because 99% of the time it's straight women who are writing yaoi. they never make it realistic because it's just a fantasy. i agree with you though, i hate how switches are so rare in yaoi.

    Mafiimafii May 4, 2020 2:54 pm
    it's because 99% of the time it's straight women who are writing yaoi. they never make it realistic because it's just a fantasy. i agree with you though, i hate how switches are so rare in yaoi. beetle

    I know, but what happened to the imagination? I'm a woman too and I want to see that! they seemed too versatile, it would be a waste for them not to switch places, they are so hot that I think it would work! I hate that in the BL community they are limited and okay with the specific roles for each one, love to see if that thing changes in the future

    angLe1004 May 4, 2020 4:57 pm

    if im not wrong, there are yaoi mangas here that switch, but its mostly one shots yakno, i agree with u

    Mafiimafii May 5, 2020 1:56 am
    if im not wrong, there are yaoi mangas here that switch, but its mostly one shots yakno, i agree with u angLe1004

    ye, I am aware of that but my point is that is not very common to see that, I would like to be a common thing and not just a tabu

    alraune May 8, 2020 10:19 am

    it always makes me laugh seeing straight women decry BL/yaoi because 'people switch irl! top/bottom doesn't really happen!'

    download grindr or involve yourself in the gay community at all and come back to me with that lol. yes there are verse gays but top/bottoms exist as well, characters switching is not inherently more realistic. believe me

    angLe1004 May 8, 2020 1:08 pm
    it always makes me laugh seeing straight women decry BL/yaoi because 'people switch irl! top/bottom doesn't really happen!' download grindr or involve yourself in the gay community at all and come back to me wi... alraune

    precisely, but maybe to each their own on what they believe in

    Mafiimafii May 8, 2020 9:17 pm
    it always makes me laugh seeing straight women decry BL/yaoi because 'people switch irl! top/bottom doesn't really happen!' download grindr or involve yourself in the gay community at all and come back to me wi... alraune

    girl, what r you talking about, I've seen gay people conplaining about the fact that BL lovers fetishize the top/bottom thing when in real life that thing is mainly inexistent, I am not saying that it doesn't exist but it is more common for them to switch and that is a fact! I am completely aware that all BL stories are fantasy and nothing else, however I would like to see more versatility in the stories such as the switch roles, that's all.

    alraune May 8, 2020 10:44 pm
    girl, what r you talking about, I've seen gay people conplaining about the fact that BL lovers fetishize the top/bottom thing when in real life that thing is mainly inexistent, I am not saying that it doesn't e... Mafiimafii

    I'm a gay man lol. It absolutely is a thing.

    Mafiimafii May 8, 2020 10:56 pm
    I'm a gay man lol. It absolutely is a thing. alraune

    okay then, ahahaha sorry for assuming your gender lolol I'm confused by the fact that you're so open minded to this kind of things lolol I have some gay friends in which I have shown them some yaoi and they were like, we are not like that -_- they prefer the bara genre and that's okay and for you to enjoy this it surprises me. Good to know that you enjoy this apart from being cliche or fanciful.