Exactly ugh. How can someone be so selfish and inconsiderate, I literally don’t understand. And now he’s gonna try and say he thought of him before having sex? Fr? Wtf?
He is genuinely being so selfish. He dumps him without communication, sees he is a wreck but never once asks if he is ok, then decides he wants to get back together still without any communication on why they broke up in the first place ???!? If I saw someone looking like that at my door I would be like "You alright, mate???"
Period. T^T He needs a whole lot of redemption before he can begin to even think of getting back together with the poor guy. The uke is too unaware of how much pain he’s going through, it drives me crazy.
Well, it's something that can happen to a person without psych powers... If misscommunication is the cause, then both are guilty.
They are both at fault. As readers, it’s so obvious to us how much the seme is struggling. We can see everyone’s problems, everyone’s thoughts, everyone’s feelings. But these characters can’t. The Uke can’t know something is wrong unless the Seme tells him something is wrong. The same way the Seme didn’t know why the Uke broke up with him because he didn’t ask. A relationship is a two way street. They both failed to be honest. Hopefully the second time around, they’ll succeed.
Yup, I get that they are both at fault, but he is the one who dumped him in the first place without even trying to understand his situation. In this case, it’s not about who is more guilty and whatnot it’s just a really bad characteristic of the uke. To put it shortly, the uke is a shallow douchebag who dated the seme because he thought he was “perfect” instead of the person he really was, which made the seme, who already felt pressured to wear a mask, be driven into a corner trying to please him in the way that he thinks is right.
Nah mate, it's very obvious the seme is struggling. Uke literally mentioned it before, that he had never seen him such a wreck. Also all of the semes coworkers even noticed he was ill so it's very clear. Uke just doesn't give a shit to ask if he is ok, he is too concerned on "how hot he still is"
I think they are both at fault. If someone is choosing to put on a mask, then how can anyone know when somethings wrong? Obviously, I'm not expecting him to completely say everything on his mind but he hid everything about himself from the uke. The uke on the other hand, should try and communicate. He broke up with him without even explaining the reason. He messed up so bad and it really damaged the seme. So he can't just think he can get back together after everything. They're both repeating the same mistake again. But sometimes we need someone else to tell us our mistakes and how we can improve.
They both need to try and talk to each other. The uke may as well have been dating a porcelain doll. I know the seme just wanted to seem like an amazing person but a relationship isn't going to last if you don't even feel comfortable enough to show yourself to that person. A relationship is built on trust and understanding among many other things including, and especially, communication. You can't trust, understand or communicate with a porcelain doll same as you can't trust someone who isn't even making an effort to see the real you. They both royally messed up and are just repeating everything again so I hope they either find someone who helps them or they realize what went wrong themselves and prevent it from happening again.
Ok uke now how about you pay attention and recognize the seme is clearly sick and struggling with something.