Agreed! Chanwoo isn't mature enough for a bdsm relationship tbh it's fine that he doesn't wanna date MD, but refusing to say the safeword just to be petty is messed up
yes that is true chanwoo should have said the safe word now MD will keep on blaming himself for everything
u said it better then i ever could
but then wasnt he endangering him? he cant be trusted either. he allowed his emotions to get in the way and went too far. he was angry, and he was jealous. even started choking him. he acted like such a small weak man in that scene.
people can get aggressive sometimes but MD should have kept his anger in check or better he should have told chanwoo to go home for the day
Yes. He was angry and a dom should never allow emotion to dictate when on a scene. However, he did not choke him out of anger. He was seeing if Chanwoo would STOP him from choking as that was obviously not in the terms of their agreement. The fact that he stopped himself even though Chanwoo did not say the safe word is proof of that. Yes, it is a breach of trust and I disagree with it but I understand why he did it. Their relationship was no longer safe...for either of them.
Not really. He did get angry and that's a no-no but he didn't let it control him. He acted like a dom testing the subs limits and agreement adherence. Breathe play was obviously not in their agreement therefore Chanwoo SHOULD have safeworded and called an end to the scene. MD even told him to. MD trusted him to. The fact that he did not and risked his life in simply trusting MD would stop himself, puts ALL of the responsibility on MD. That's not how it works. Trust goes both ways.
i dont really agree. but i guess thats okay. it was obviously he was offended he got rejected. hes usually the one that dumps his partners, you can tell he was enraged he was rejected and wanted to punish him for it.
i just dont think its a healthy relationship, it mirrors his other abusive relationships too much.
Not surprising that MD cut him off afterward. In a real bdsm relationship, his refusal to not only not do what his dom said but to not say the safe word even in a life threatening situation is an automatic end all.
He's proven he cannot be trusted to not let his dom endanger him and those relationships are ALL about trust!
It's no different than if a dom was legitimately trying to hurt the sub and wouldn't stop even at the safe word. It's a form of betrayal and rape. Trust and consent is the epitome of these relationships.